Joe engages in a heartfelt conversation with Marc Poli, who shares his extraordinary journey from a challenging childhood in Leith, Scotland, to a successful career after serving in the military. Marc recounts the trials he faced during his parents' separation, his brief stint in foster care, and the independence he gained at a young age. He reflects on his decision to join the army, motivated by a desire to escape his past and seek camaraderie. Throughout the discussion, Marc candidly addresses the realities of military life, including the challenges of training and the impact of bullying within the ranks. He also highlights the importance of resilience, mentorship, and the lessons learned from both successes and failures in his career, ultimately leading to his current role as a business owner in the recruitment industry. This episode is a testament to the power of perseverance and the significance of community and support in overcoming life's obstacles.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

1. Resilience in Adversity: The journey from a challenging childhood, including parental separation and foster care, highlights the importance of resilience. Choosing to live with his father despite difficulties shaped a strong sense of independence.

2. Influence of Family Legacy: A desire to follow in the footsteps of a military grandfather motivated a commitment to join the army, showcasing how family history can inspire personal aspirations and career choices.

3. Overcoming Doubts: Facing skepticism from his father about his ability to succeed in the military, the determination to prove him wrong became a driving force, illustrating how external doubts can fuel personal ambition.

4. Value of Mentorship: The significance of having supportive figures in life is emphasized, as mentors can provide guidance and opportunities that lead to personal and professional growth.

5. Perspective on Failure: Viewing setbacks as learning experiences rather than failures fosters a positive mindset. The belief that "what's meant to be will be" encourages resilience and adaptability in the face of challenges.

BEST MOMENTS

"I was the only one of 12 grandchildren or so that I actually joined, and none of his sons joined either. So it was a bit of an achievement for me to do that for him."

"I don't really see anything as a failure if I'm honest with you, because at the end of the day what's meant to be will be."

"Manners cost nothing. Good karma is a positive thing in life, and if you're good with people, people will receptively be good back to you."

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HOST BIO

Joe O'Connor is a resilient business entrepreneur and Financial Adviser dedicated to supporting business owners and veterans in their transition to civilian life. Despite facing life-threatening challenges at a young age, Joe defied the odds and embarked on a remarkable journey. From excelling as a Combat Engineer and Physical Training Instructor in the Royal Engineers to starting his own business as a Financial Adviser, Joe has displayed unwavering determination.

After rejoining the Army as a reservist in the Bomb Disposal Unit, Joe reached the rank of Sergeant before transferring to the SAS, where he endured a severe injury and was medically discharged. Undeterred, he resumed his role as an IFA and founded a charity that aids injured veterans and their families.

Joe's charity is currently finalizing plans for a training center and 23 Lodges, aiming to provide vital support for veterans transitioning to civilian life while addressing stress, anxiety, and PTSD. Today, Joe's mission is to unite business owners and veterans, helping them unleash their full potential for success.