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Show Notes:
Ever felt like the first bite “signs a contract”—and suddenly the brakes are gone? In this episode, we slow that moment down and explain why loss-of-control eating is a predictable state shift that shows up more often under stress and restriction. You’ll learn what’s happening in your brain and body—and how to interrupt the spiral without needing perfection.

What we cover

• What “loss of control” really means (it’s about the internal experience, not just quantity)
• The 4 forces that create the “brakes gone” feeling:
  1. Food as relief: your brain predicts food will help
  2. Scarcity thinking: “I shouldn’t / I can’t / I’ll make up for it later”
  3. Body vulnerability: under-fueling, fatigue, stress, depletion
  4. The switch-flip thought: “I blew it / might as well”
• How stress-amplifying thoughts (“I don’t have enough time,” “this is too much”) fan the flames
• A core strategy for relief: Turn to people, not food (connection lowers pressure)

Tools you can try this week

• Stabilize your baseline: consistent, adequate meals earlier in the day (especially if nights are hard)
• Plate + Pause (for risk moments): eat your first portion normally, then pause 30–90 seconds and ask, “What do I need right now?”
• Remember: every binge has ended—you can influence when it ends next time. Any interruption counts.

Coming next

We’ll zoom out to how these patterns form over time—and where the cycle actually starts.

Work with me: Coaching details are in the show notes.

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If you’ve ever been told “just stop restricting” and felt more confused than helped, this episode is for you. We’re defining restriction in a way that actually supports recovery: not every “no” creates pressure. The kind of restriction that fuels binge eating is excessive, distress-based scarcity—and learning the difference is how you build steadiness without swinging into chaos.

In this episode, we cover

• Why “never say no” isn’t recovery—it’s a different trap
• The key distinction: regulation vs. scarcity (limits aren’t the problem; distress is)
• Two types of “restriction”:
  • Practical boundaries that create stability
  • Deprivation-based restriction that drives rebound eating
• Why deprivation backfires (biology, psychology, and nervous system threat)
• How to tell, in real time, whether a “no” is supportive or scarcity-based (the 3 questions)

Work with me

If you want support building your middle path—without swinging between extremes—coaching details can be found at ConfidentEaters.com. Or, send me an email at Georgiefear@gmail.com.

New to the show? Start Here: https://breakingupwithbingeeating.transistor.fm/start-here
Pick the listening path that fits what you’re dealing with right now.