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What happens when leaders prioritize control over connection? Nicole F. Smith and Dr. Shanesia Davis unpack the critical shift modern leaders must make: moving from control reflexes to authentic relationships.

Dr. Davis reveals how cultural norms like urgency and perfectionism condition leaders to stay in "doing mode" while neglecting the inner work that creates sustainable impact.

In this episode, you'll discover:

✅ Why leadership is a relational process that begins with self-leadership
✅ How unexamined emotions leak into public consequences affecting teams
✅ Why empathy doesn't mean fixing others
✅ How to develop emotional regulation as a core leadership skill
✅ The difference between being a leader and doing leadership tasks

If you've ever felt the weight of needing all the answers or controlling every outcome, this episode will give you permission to lead differently. True influence comes not from control, but from showing up authentically and creating space for others to do the same.

Resources mentioned: 📖 20 Golden Leadership Nuggets, Refined by EQ Impact by Nicole F. Smith 🎓 Upcoming webinars on emotional intelligence www.thenicolefsmith.com

Your leadership impact begins with your inner work.

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Stop undervaluing your expertise! In this game-changing episode, host Nicole F. Smith sits down with Kelly Charles Collins, Esq—former trial lawyer, mediator, and arbitrator turned strategic advisor and professional speaker—for a conversation that will challenge everything you believe about pricing your expertise. Kelly doesn't hold back as she addresses the uncomfortable truth: Black women experts are showing up in spaces without getting paid what they're worth, and it's time to change that narrative.

ANNOUNCEMENT! JOIN US IN ATLANTA: Kelly is hosting The 6 Speaking Industry Expo, March 16-18, where Nicole will be speaking at the Iconic Talks Speaker Showcase! This business incubator isn't about taking notes—it's about implementation. Learn the strategies Kelly has used to help clients go from zero to multiple five figures and close six-figure contracts.
Ready to disrupt the industry and stop being complicit in your own erasure? Register for The 6 Speaking Industry Expo taking place in Atlanta March 16-18 now at speakingindustryexpo.com

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Your legacy isn't what you leave behind — it's what you're building right now. In this powerful episode, Nicole F. Smith challenges leaders to stop waiting for the perfect moment and start living their legacy intentionally.

Drawing from her keynote The Legacy You Lead and her EQ Impact® Framework, Nicole guides you through a transformative reflection process: What do you need to START doing to align with your values? What do you need to STOP that's blocking your impact? And what strengths do you need to CONTINUE to protect your growth?

This episode isn't about achievements or titles. It's about emotional intelligence, authentic leadership, and the courage to show up in a way that creates lasting impact. You'll learn how to define your legacy statement and ensure your presence reflects the leader you want to be remembered as — not someday, but today.

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You're Not Going BACK, You're Becoming NEW w/ Nicole Bright

Divorce doesn't mean going back to who you were before—it means discovering who you're becoming. In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Nicole Bright, certified divorce coach, author, and motivational speaker, to talk about healing from divorce with emotional intelligence, authenticity, and intention.

Nicole shares her personal journey of leaving a controlling, abusive marriage while secretly coaching other married women—and how she transformed that pain into her purpose of helping others rebuild their lives after separation.

In This Episode, We Discuss:

✨ Why you can't recover the old you—and why that's a good thing

✨ The shame, guilt, and anger that surface during divorce (and how to process them)

✨ Nicole's "Find the Bright Spot in Your Darkness" framework

✨ How to reposition your ex-spouse in your life while protecting your peace

✨ Why therapy and coaching aren't optional—they're essential

✨ Breaking free from the masks we wear and the exhaustion of pretending

✨ The truth: two people in a home can still be a broken home

Whether you're navigating divorce, supporting someone through it, or leading others through major life transitions, this episode will shift your perspective on healing, resilience, and self-discovery.

About Nicole Bright: Nicole Bright is a certified life coach specializing in divorce recovery, author, motivational speaker, and mother of two. She helps individuals heal from divorce and rebuild their lives with confidence and clarity.

www.facebook.com/CoachNicoleBright/

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Most people see drama. Leaders see strategy.

In this episode, I dissect 50 Cent's documentary move on Diddy—not as celebrity gossip, but as an emotional intelligence masterclass. He controlled his emotions, read the cultural moment, understood the emotional climate, and turned years of tension into influence, revenue, and global positioning.

Your leadership will face similar moments. Maybe not on Netflix, but absolutely in your workplace and reputation.

I break down five critical truths for leading in cancel culture:

1. Power without EQ is a liability
2. Silence is the real scandal
3. Receipts live forever
4. EQ gives you influence that outlasts backlash
5. Self-correction speed determines survival

You cannot afford to lead on autopilot. The leaders who rise in 2025 are the ones who maximize their emotional intelligence—not for show, but for sustainability.

This is your wake-up call.

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In this transformative episode, host Nicole F Smith sits down with Malaysia Harrell—psychotherapist, spiritual transformation coach, UN peace ambassador, best-selling author, and military veteran—for a conversation that will challenge everything you thought you knew about success, purpose, and healing.
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:
✅ How to know when you're living in your divine assignment
✅ The difference between authenticity and transparency
✅ Why trauma can redirect you toward your purpose
✅ How to master the art of becoming and surrender
✅ Why everyone can't come with you on your journey
✅ How to redefine success on your own terms
MALAYSIA'S STORY: After surviving childhood trauma, near-death experiences in the military, and nine surgeries in five years, Malaysia found herself at rock bottom—254 pounds, Bell's palsy, sarcoidosis, and unable to walk. But in that dark night of the soul, she had a true conversation with God and chose surrender. Three weeks after military retirement, she met with Howard Schultz (Starbucks founder), proving that obedience leads to miracles.
Now as a UN-sanctioned peace ambassador, Malaysia travels internationally, helping high-achieving women heal from behind their masks of perfection and step into their divine assignments.
CONNECT WITH MALAYSIA HARRELL:
📖 Book: God Has My Six
🌐 Website: MalaysiaHarrell.com
🏢 Consulting: BlissfulLifeConsulting.com
📧 Email: info@MalaysiaHarrell.com
📱 Instagram: @MalaysiaHHarrell @YourWellnessMogul
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Season 4 brought the real work to the surface.

Across every episode, leaders opened up about grief, reinvention, parenting almost-adults, navigating faith, surviving adversity, and choosing courage over comfort.

You heard raw conversations about DEI, AI, emotional maturity, purpose-driven leadership, and what it means to stop performing and start living your truth.

This season reminded us:

• Clarity comes when you confront what you’ve been avoiding
• Confidence grows when you lead with honesty instead of perfection
• Emotional maturity is the foundation of spiritual, personal, and professional growth
• Healing is leadership work — not a side assignment
• Mindset + EQ determine the quality of every conversation, decision, and relationship
• Purpose gets louder when you stop hiding behind titles and start telling the truth
• You can’t build trust or resilience without emotional intelligence

From faith leaders to entrepreneurs, community builders to corporate voices — every guest showed what transformation looks like in real time.

Season 4 asked you to stop reacting.
Season 5 will push you to rise.

See you on Season 5!

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Together, Nicole and Melanie Pratt, radio personality of Charlotte Praise 100.9, dive deep into the intersection of faith and emotional intelligence—challenging the tendency to “put glitter on it” in church and in life, while ignoring the pain beneath. With vulnerability and wisdom, Melanie shares her personal journey from singing in choirs to becoming a trusted voice on gospel radio, and what she’s learned about healing, authenticity, and emotional maturity along the way.

🔑 In this conversation, you’ll discover:
- Why faith and healing aren’t either/or—but both/and.
- How unprocessed emotions like anger, fear, and grief sabotage spiritual growth.
- The power of emotional intelligence as a toolkit for resilience, conflict, and capacity.
- Why being the same person in all spaces is the foundation of trust and integrity.
- How healthy conflict, pausing, and self-awareness can transform relationships.

This episode is a candid, liberating reminder that spiritual maturity requires emotional maturity—and that true faith is never about hiding pain, but about healing it.

Connect with Melanie!
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melaniewho/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melaniewho1/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melanielpratt/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melaniewho1

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