• Finding Joy and Hope in a Stressful Holiday Season
    Dec 22 2025

    In this special Christmas episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale reflect on the true meaning of Christmas and how families can experience joy and hope even during stressful seasons of life.

    They discuss how blended family dynamics, busy schedules, grief, and unresolved relationships can make the holidays challenging, yet remind listeners that the birth of Jesus brings good news of great joy for all people. Using scripture from Luke 2 and Romans 15, Scott and Vanessa encourage families to pause, reflect, forgive, and choose gratitude as they close out the year.

    This episode offers practical ways to keep Christ at the center of Christmas through prayer, reflection, family traditions, and meaningful conversations. Listeners are invited to end the year well and enter the next season with renewed faith, hope, and joy.

    We pray this episode blesses you today!

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    16 mins
  • The Danger of Not Setting Boundaries With Family
    Dec 15 2025

    In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa dive into one of the most requested and challenging topics in blended families: setting boundaries with extended family, adult children, and in laws, especially during the holiday season.

    Using real life coaching examples and personal stories, they explain why boundaries are essential for healthy family dynamics, how boundaries without consequences lose their power, and why couples must first get on the same page before addressing outside relationships.

    Scott and Vanessa discuss common holiday stressors, blended family tension, adult children navigating independence, and how to protect the peace of your home without guilt or fear. They also share practical steps for communicating boundaries respectfully, following through consistently, and maintaining compassion while standing firm. Biblical wisdom from Matthew 18 guides the conversation, reminding listeners that healthy conflict resolution and mutual respect are key to thriving families.

    This episode is essential listening for any couple feeling overwhelmed, disrespected, or uncertain how to address ongoing family tension.

    We pray this episode blesses you today!

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    18 mins
  • The Gift of Parenthood and the Benefits of Presence Over Perfection
    Dec 8 2025

    In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale talk honestly about the gift of parenthood, the challenges and joys of raising children, and the powerful ways parenting reflects the heart of God and how He loves and leads us.

    They discuss how every stage of parenting brings lessons, growth, and opportunities to surrender control to the Lord. From toddlerhood to the teenage years to adult children, Scott and Vanessa unpack the beauty, struggle, refinement, and reward of raising kids well.

    Listeners will hear encouragement on how to let go of guilt, embrace God’s grace, resist comparison, and focus on presence over perfection. The episode also highlights the role of co-parents and step-parents, reminding them that they have a vital and God-given place in their children’s lives.

    This conversation provides hope, perspective, and truth for all parent and especially those who feels overwhelmed, discouraged, or unsure if they are doing enough.

    We pray this episode blesses you today!

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    21 mins
  • The Truth About Coaching vs Therapy in Blended Families
    Dec 1 2025

    In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Vanessa Martindale and Dr. Dan Ennaco explain the clear differences between coaching and therapy and why blended families often need both at different stages of their journey.

    They discuss what coaching can accomplish, what therapy is required for, and why understanding the distinction is essential for couples, step-parents, and co-parents. Vanessa and Dan share real experiences from working with families who face step-parenting tension, high conflict co-parenting, trauma, anxiety, depression, and communication breakdowns.

    Listeners will learn how coaching helps families create goals, build structure, strengthen communication, and form healthy boundaries, while therapy is needed for deeper emotional work such as trauma, severe anxiety, depression, past wounds and exploring mental health challenges impacting the present.

    This episode clarifies how each method equips families to grow, heal, and build stronger, healthier homes with God at the center.

    We pray this episode blesses you today!

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    19 mins
  • How to Stay Thankful During the Holiday Season In A Blended Family
    Nov 24 2025

    In this Thanksgiving week episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Vanessa Martindale shares an encouraging message on the power of gratitude during the holiday season, especially important for blended families navigating holiday transitions, co-parenting challenges, grief, or unmet expectations.

    Through Scripture, practical examples, and personal reflection, Vanessa explains how gratitude shifts our perspective, softens our hearts, strengthens relationships, and invites the peace of God into every circumstance. She offers simple practices to cultivate gratitude, along with reflection questions to help families reconnect with God and one another during the holiday season.

    We pray this episode blesses you today!

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    12 mins
  • When Your Kids Become Idols and What to Do About It
    Nov 17 2025

    In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Vanessa Martindale and Dr. Dan Ennaco discuss one of the most convicting topics for Christian parents, what happens when we unintentionally place our children above God.

    Through honest conversation and biblical truth, they explore how parents can idolize their kids through sports, academics, or even family schedules, and how this shift can slowly pull families away from faith and obedience to God.

    You will hear practical advice on how to realign your heart, model obedience for your children, and keep Christ at the center of your home.

    We pray this episode blesses you today!

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    19 mins
  • Leading with Integrity: Godly Leadership in Your Home and Everyday Life
    Nov 3 2025

    In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martingale explore what true leadership looks like, inside and outside your home.

    They discuss how godly leadership begins with integrity, humility, and consistency, and how being a servant leader means prioritizing the growth and well-being of others. From managing your home with grace to leading your family through example, this episode will inspire you to lead like Christ, with love, strength, and purpose.

    We pray this episode blesses you today!

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    15 mins
  • Different Parenting Styles? How to Parent in Unity in Marriage and Blended Family Life
    Oct 27 2025

    In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa tackle one of the most common struggles couples face: parenting differences.

    They discuss how to parent as a united team even when you disagree on discipline, routines, or expectations. With wisdom from counseling and coaching blended families, they share practical ways to find alignment, communicate effectively, and build a marriage rooted in God’s truth and grace.

    Learn how to effectively handle disagreements about discipline, create a parenting plan, and stay connected as a couple through every parenting season.

    We pray this episode blesses you today!

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    15 mins