🐾 Hey there, Dog Lover,

We all want our dogs to like us—it's only natural.
But when you're working with a fearful or reactive dog, likeability isn't the goal. Trust is.

In today’s episode, we’re digging into the hidden trap of trying to "win" your dog's affection—and why focusing on being trusted instead of liked changes everything.
We'll explore what real leadership looks like (hint: it's not about bribery or constant cheerleading) and how you can start showing up as the steady, calm, trustworthy presence your dog actually needs.

And yes... we're having a little fun with a classic "Pick Me, Choose Me" reference from Grey’s Anatomy too. 😉🐾

Hope you enjoy this one!
Be sure to share it with your dog-loving friends who might need a little reminder that they’re already enough. 💜

Cheers!

Tracy

Ready to take the next step with your fearful dog?
➡️ Join me inside the Fearless Framework — a trust-based -relationship-first coaching program and community built specifically for reactive, fearful, and misunderstood dogs.
This isn’t just about training drills or obedience commands. It’s about understanding your dog’s mind, building real trust, and walking through the world together with calm confidence.
You and your dog deserve that—and I can’t wait to help you get there! 🐾

Learn more: www.beyondobedience.ca/fearless

🎶 Music Credit: Shawn Trotter | www.shawntrotter.com

🐾Hey there, Dog Lover,
Are you constantly scheduling walks, enrichment, training sessions—and still feeling like you’re not doing enough?

This episode is your permission to pause.😉

We’re talking about the emotional weight of trying to “get it right,” what overstimulation might be doing to your relationship, and why doing nothing together can still be doing something.

Let’s slow down and rediscover the calm, connected life you and your dog actually want.

Next Steps:
👉 Join the Fearless Framework- Share in the journey with other dog lovers like you!
Inside our program and private community, we help dog people like you finally let go of the pressure—and build real trust, confidence, and understanding instead.
Come find your rhythm again.
www.beyondobedience.ca/fearless

📅 Book a Calm, Confident Coaching Call -Private Consultation in the comfort of your home.
Sometimes, one honest conversation can change everything.
If you're stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure what your dog really needs, I’d love to help you find clarity and peace.
https://calendly.com/beyondobedience-info/leadership

Hope you enjoy—and please share with your dog-loving friends!
Cheers,
Tracy
🎶Music credit: Shawn Trotter – shawntrotter.com

🐾Hey there, Dog Lover,
You want to do right by your dog. 💜

You want connection, confidence… and if we’re honest, you probably want them to be “good.”

But what does that even mean?

And who gets to decide?

This episode unpacks where the “good dog” myth really comes from, how it quietly shows up in our daily lives, and what it might be costing you—and your dog.

If you’ve ever thought, “She should be over this by now” or “I just want him to be good,” this one’s for you.

👣Next Steps:
👉 Join the Fearless Framework! Share your journey with fellow dog lovers 🐕
Inside our student community, you'll learn how to lead your dog with calm confidence—without relying on obedience, tools, or treat-based tricks.
This isn’t just another training program—it’s where real change begins.
www.beyondobedience.ca/fearless

📅 Book a Calm, Confident Coaching Call - One-on-one help from the comfort of your home 😊
Let’s talk about your dog, your challenges, and how to start building trust and connection in a way that actually works for you both.
No pressure—just an honest conversation.
https://calendly.com/beyondobedience-info/leadership

Hope you enjoy—and please share with your dog-loving friends!
Cheers,
Tracy
Music credit: Shawn Trotter – shawntrotter.com

🐾Hey there Dog Lover,
What if your dog didn’t need more drills, tools, or treat pouches… but a completely different kind of relationship?

In this episode, I’m sharing the 5 core values that guide everything I do inside Beyond Obedience.

These aren’t training tips—they’re mindset shifts.

Anchors. Invitations to lead from trust, not pressure.

If you’ve felt stuck in the “shoulds,” these pillars might just set you free.😊

Next Steps:
👉 Join the Fearless Framework- Join the most supportive, amazing dog lovers♥️
This is where transformation really begins—not with more to-dos, but with a shift in how you show up for your dog.
Inside, you’ll find education, community, and support. Come "unlearn" some things with us!
www.beyondobedience.ca/fearless

📅 Book a Calm, Confident Coaching Call
Not sure where to start? Let’s talk.
In just one call, we can uncover what’s actually going on and what your next best step might be—no judgment, no pressure.

https://calendly.com/beyondobedience-info/leadership

Hope you enjoy—and please share with your dog-loving friends!
Cheers,
Tracy
Music credit: Shawn Trotter – shawntrotter.com

Hey Dog Lover,

What happens when we stop trying to “fix” our dog — and start asking who they truly are?

In this episode, I sit down with Heather to talk about her incredible journey with Geordie — a dog she once believed she’d never truly connect with. Together, we explore what it means to see the world through your dog’s eyes, to lead with emotional reliability, and to step into a quiet, shared language of partnership.

Heather reflects on:🐾 Moving from confusion to clarity
🐾 The power of calm, present leadership
🐾 Why curiosity changed everything
🐾 And how walks once filled with frustration have become joyful adventures in connection

If you’ve ever felt like you and your dog were living parallel lives — or wondered if a deeper bond was even possible — Heather’s story will remind you:
You’re not alone. And it’s never too late to become the partner your dog has been waiting for.

Hope you enjoy this one!

Talk soon

Tracy

✨ Next steps?
If you're ready to experience this kind of transformation with your own dog — it starts with a conversation.
👉 Click here to book a call with me and let’s talk about what’s possible for you and your dog.

🎶 Special thanks to Shawn Trotter for the original music featured in this episode.
Visit shawntrotter.com to explore more of his work.

Hey dog lover!

Okay, so here’s the deal…
You’ve done the training. Your dog knows the cues.
And yet… every walk feels like a strategy session, every outing ends in stress, and you're still left wondering, “Why isn’t this working?”

If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you.

In today’s chat, I’m walking you through three signs that the real issue isn’t obedience—it’s something deeper.

We’ll unpack why your dog might be better off-leash than on, what your exhaustion is trying to tell you, and how to stop micromanaging and start leading in a way that actually feels good for both of you.

And of course, I’ll share what you can do to turn things around—without adding more training to your already overflowing plate.

Let’s trade pressure for partnership.
Let’s build trust instead of managing behaviour.
Let’s get curious (and maybe say “how interesting!” once or twice 😉).

So grab your tea, leash, or laundry basket and let’s dive in.

With heart and a whole lotta calm,
– Tracy 💛

P.S. Ready for your next steps?

🎯 Join the Fearless Framework and start building trust with your fearful or reactive dog the relationship-first way:
👉 Fearless Framework Course & Community

🎧 Need clarity fast? Book a Leadership Coaching Call with me here:
👉Calm Coaching Call

Music credit:
🎶 Original music Shawn Trotter 🎸 www.shawntrotter.com

🐾Hey Dog Lover!,

You’ve probably asked it at some point — maybe even this week:
“Is my dog doing this because they’re afraid?”

It’s such a common question… and honestly, a really complicated one.
Because fear can show up in a lot of ways: barking, lunging, freezing, chasing, or even growling. And to make it even trickier? Those same behaviors could also come from frustration, confusion, or instinct.

And when you’re the one holding the leash — trying to read your dog’s body language in real-time, while your own heart rate is going up — well, that’s a lot to ask of yourself.

Here’s the truth I’ve learned:
You can’t see the whole picture when you’re standing in the frame.

That’s why in this episode, I’m walking you through:

• What fear really looks like (and why it’s not always obvious)

• The difference between defensive and offensive right brain behavior

• How emotions and instinct overlap in dogs

• And why understanding your dog’s Dogonality™ gives you the power to ask better questions — not just get better answers

If you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Is it fear… or something else?” — this one’s for you.
Let’s slow it down, zoom out, and figure out what’s really going on under the surface.

Hope you enjoy this episode,
Tracy 🐾

👉 NEXT STEPS:

🎯 Take the Dogonality™ Quiz to better understand your dog’s brain and behaviour:
www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz

📥 Want my help?
Book a Calm Coaching Call to get clarity on what’s going on with your dog — and what to do next.

💬 Let’s stay connected:
Come join the free Facebook group for more stories, support, and nerdy behaviour talk:
www.facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience

Music Credit: 🎶. Shawn Trotter of www.shawntrotter.com

Hey there Dog Lover!🐾

This week, Paisley and I sat down to answer some of your most honest, heartfelt questions — and wow, did you deliver.

From a siren-sensitive Malinois who never leaves your side… to a fearless Boston with a taste for freedom… to a big, beautiful German Shepherd whose jumping has turned into bruises and scratches — every question we answered this week was rooted in one thing:
A deep desire to understand.

Here’s what we unpack in this April Q&A episode:🐾 Should you let your fearful dog follow you everywhere?
🐾 What to do when your large, excited dog’s jumping becomes dangerous
🐾 How to know if your dog’s barking is social, defensive, or something else
🐾 When to consider tools like an e-collar — and how to know if you’re ready
🐾 What to do when reactivity becomes a dopamine-driven pattern
🐾 Helping your dog feel safe around guests
🐾 Teaching a larger dog to be gentle with smaller dogs in the home

If you’ve ever found yourself asking:
“Am I doing the right thing?”
“Is this fear, or something else?”
“What if I’m not enough?”
…this episode is for you.

You’re not alone. And more than ever, the world needs the kind of leadership that begins with empathy — not control.

Hope you enjoy this episode!

Tracy 🐾

👉 NEXT STEPS:

💛 If you’re ready for real change…
Come join the incredible community inside the Fearful Dog: Fearless Framework — my online course and group coaching space where we go far beyond obedience.

It’s where you’ll find:

• Support from dog lovers who truly get it

• Tools that help you build trust and confidence — without relying on treats or tools

• Monthly coaching calls and personalized guidance

• And a safe space to stop feeling so alone in your dog journey

🌱 The world is heavy right now. And I believe, more than ever, people need what our dogs can teach us — and what we can teach them in return.
Come join us → www.beyondobedience.ca/fearless

💬 Let’s stay connected:
Come hang out in the Living Beyond Obedience Facebook group for more support, reflection, and real-talk:
www.facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience

🎯 Take the Dogonality™ Quiz to understand your dog’s behaviour on a deeper level:
www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz

🎶 Music by Shawn Trotter – www.shawntrotter.com