In this gentle baby bitesize episode of Thriving Parenting, Jen invites you to pause and reflect on a pattern many parents know all too well. Rushing through the day, counting down to bedtime, and only truly delighting in our children once they are asleep, through photos, videos, or the baby monitor.

Jen explores why this happens, especially during busy seasons like Christmas, and how the mental load, invisible to-do lists, and survival mode can pull us away from real-time connection. While this is completely human and deeply common, she offers a compassionate reframe. What if connection didn’t have to wait until the day was over?

This episode gently reminds us that connection is a core human need, for both parents and children. When children feel seen, heard, and delighted in, it can support cooperation, ease transitions, and make parenting feel lighter.

Jen shares five simple, intentional moments of presence you can weave into everyday life. From eye contact during feeds, to fully listening to their stories, to noticing their little hands in the shopping trolley. These small pockets of connection matter more than we realise.

This is not about doing more. It is about being more present in the moments you are already in. A beautiful reminder that your presence is the most precious gift you can give your child. Especially at this time of year.

Your children need your presence more than your presents.

If sleep or parenting feels overwhelming right now, Jen also shares details about her free Sleep Clarity Sessions, offering calm, pressure-free support to help you move from surviving to thriving.

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For more information on this topic, head to the show notes: Episode 95 Show Notes

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Until next time, Thrivers