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BUT FIRST, SHE FAILED - Career Growth, Women Entrepreneurs, Overcoming Imposter Syndrome, Growth Mindset, Confidence

BUT FIRST, SHE FAILED - Career Growth, Women Entrepreneurs, Overcoming Imposter Syndrome, Growth Mindset, Confidence

By: Paola Soares | Growth Mindset Coach Career Growth Mentor Christian Woman
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 Do you ever struggle with imposter syndrome when it comes to your career or business? Wish you had unshakable confidence no matter who’s in the meeting? Ever wonder how those wildly successful women got to where they are today? What if I told you that every one of them had moments of “failure” would failure seem less scary to you? What if "failure" is part of the journey towards success and purpose? Welcome to the BUT FIRST, SHE FAILED podcast. In this podcast you will learn practical tips on how to develop the boss woman within you to excel with confidence in your career and business. Hear candid conversations with trailblazing women that are dominating in their fields as industry leaders, entrepreneurs, influencers and more. Learn as they share wisdom, strategies and get vulnerable about how moments of “failure” propelled them to where they are today. Hi! I’m Paola Soares:) I’m a former Journalist and National News Producer that has had stories appear on Univision, Telemundo ABC News among others. While working in news my favorite stories were always profile pieces that helped and inspired. I started this podcast because I’m passionate about helping women gain confidence in their careers, businesses and overcome the fear failing that many times can be holding them back from living the life of their dreams. Because I’ve been there. I remember: + being in meetings with CEO’s, Anchors, and other high level bosses and being too nervous and second guessing myself so much that I wouldn’t speak up and share an idea that I really felt was a great one. + Thinking that I was nothing like those boss women that I looked up, that they had never struggled and I was the only one that had setbacks. + Being let go from what I thought was dream job and feeling like like I was a "failure" and struggling to move past it till I had a life-changing realization. Now I’m taking my love of story telling and combining it with something that is on my heart, helping women overcome fear of failing and gain confidence when it comes to their careers, businesses and callings. Stop second guessing yourself and become the boss woman that deep down inside you know you are supposed to become. Shake off that discouragement, it’s not too late, you are not behind! If you are ready for your boss-woman breakthrough this podcast is for you! Get ready to get inspired! Economics Leadership Management & Leadership Personal Development Personal Success
Episodes
  • 140. Why Some Small Businesses Need a Fractional CFO, Not Just an Accountant with Danielle Hendon

    140. Why Some Small Businesses Need a Fractional CFO, Not Just an Accountant with Danielle Hendon
    Aug 27 2025

    Are your small business finances keeping you up at night? In this episode of But First, She Failed, Paola sits down with Danielle Hendon, Fractional CFO and founder of Four Corners CFO, to break down how entrepreneurs can gain financial clarity, prevent burnout, and finally start paying themselves with confidence.

    Danielle explains the key differences between an accountant and a fractional CFO, and why having a CFO on your team can completely transform your business.

    You’ll learn how fractional CFOs bring big business strategies to small businesses, why understanding your numbers empowers better decision-making, and the crucial steps every entrepreneur should take to prioritize profit. Whether you’re a creative business owner, a founder in growth mode, or an entrepreneur tired of financial stress, this episode will give you actionable tools to make smart money moves and build a sustainable business you love.

    What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

    • The difference between an accountant and a fractional CFO

    • Why financial clarity prevents burnout and fuels growth

    • How to pay yourself and prioritize profit

    • Big business strategies that work for small business owners

    • Why work-life balance and smart money habits go hand-in-hand

    Connect with Danielle:

    4Cornerscfo.com

    Get the free Guide mentioned here: https://4cornerscfo.com/butfirstshefailed/

    👯‍♀️ Join the FREE BFSF Accountability Club Call (Sept)
    If you're ready to get out of your own head and into community, come connect with other like-minded women pursuing clarity and purpose. We'll share what we’re working on, where we’re stuck, and encourage one another. It’s completely FREE!

    ✅ Fill out the Accountability Club interest form here:
    👉 Accountability Club link

    💻 Let’s Connect:

    📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed
    🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com
    🎙 Book a Mentorship Session: Click Here
    📩 Join the Weekly Newsletter + Take the Boss Woman Profile Quiz: Sign Up
    ▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here
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    28 mins
  • 139. How to Translate Skills Across Industries & Build Your Network Like A Boss with Career Coach and Fractional HR Executive Kate Sargent

    139. How to Translate Skills Across Industries & Build Your Network Like A Boss with Career Coach and Fractional HR Executive Kate Sargent
    Aug 13 2025

    Want to plan your next career move without the stress? In this episode, executive coach and HR consultant Kate Sargent shares how to navigate career transitions strategically, build a powerful support network, and use networking to open new opportunities.

    We cover the rise of fractional HR services, how to approach negotiation with confidence and kindness, and ways to translate your skills across industries. Kate also explains how to craft a cohesive personal brand that tells your story and attracts the right roles.

    You’ll Learn:

    • Why the fractional HR model is a game-changer for small businesses.

    • How to plan a career pivot without waiting for a crisis.

    • Networking strategies that actually work.

    • Negotiation tips that leave relationships stronger.

    • How to translate your skills across industries.

    • The power of a cohesive career narrative.

    Kate sits down with host Paola Soares to break down actionable strategies for effective networking, confident negotiation, and crafting a cohesive career narrative that helps you stand out in any industry. She also explains how to translate your skills across different fields, position your personal brand for success, and turn failures into opportunities for growth.

    Packed with practical tips, this conversation will equip you with the tools you need to navigate change, expand your network, and create a career path that aligns with your strengths and values.

    Connect with Kate:

    kjs.consulting.com

    Linkedin: Kate Sargent


    👯‍♀️ Join the FREE BFSF Accountability Club Call (Sept)
    If you're ready to get out of your own head and into community, come connect with other     like-minded women pursuing clarity and purpose. We'll share what we’re working on, where we’re stuck, and encourage one another. It’s completely FREE!

    ✅ Fill out the Accountability Club interest form here:
    👉 Accountability Club link

    💻 Let’s Connect:

    📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed
    🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com
    🎙 Book a Mentorship Session: Click Here
    📩 Join the Weekly Newsletter + Take the Boss Woman Profile Quiz: Sign Up
    ▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here

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    48 mins
  • 138. Feeling Lost when it comes to your purpose, calling or career? Me too. Here’s what I’m doing about it

    138. Feeling Lost when it comes to your purpose, calling or career? Me too. Here’s what I’m doing about it
    Jul 30 2025

    Feeling lost in your career, business or more importantly when it comes to your purpose and calling? In this episode, host Paola Soares shares what she’s doing about it—and how you can find clarity, purpose, and peace in your season of uncertainty.

    If you’ve been feeling stuck, disconnected from your calling, or unsure of your next step in business or life, this conversation is for you. Whether you're an entrepreneur, professional, or purpose-driven woman seeking God for answers—this is your reminder that you're not alone.

    🔎 In this episode, we explore:

    • Why you may be feeling lost in your career or purpose

    • How to seek God for direction and clarity

    • The power of surrendering your plans

    • Finding peace through Scripture and spiritual alignment

    • The importance of community and accountability

    • Why obedience (even small steps) is key to breakthrough

    • The parable of the talents and how it applies to your calling

    💬 Key Scriptures Mentioned:

    • Jeremiah 1:5 – "Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you…"

    • Ephesians 3:20 – "God is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all…"

    • Matthew 25:14–30 – The Parable of the Talents

    👯‍♀️ Join the FREE BFSF Accountability Club Call (Sept)
    If you're ready to get out of your own head and into community, come connect with other like-minded women pursuing clarity and purpose. We'll share what we’re working on, where we’re stuck, and encourage one another. It’s completely FREE!

    ✅ Fill out the Accountability Club interest form here:
    👉 Click Here

    💻 Let’s Connect:

    📲 Instagram: @butfirstshefailed
    🌐 Website: Paolasoares.com
    🎙 Book a Mentorship Session: Click Here
    📩 Join the Weekly Newsletter + Take the Boss Woman Profile Quiz: Sign Up
    ▶️ Follow on YouTube: Watch Here

    Email: paola@butfirstshefailed.com
    Show More Show Less
    22 mins
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