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Anchor and Release: Your Secret Weapon for Raising Calm Kids

Anchor and Release: Your Secret Weapon for Raising Calm Kids

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 Welcome back, friend. I'm Julia Cartwright, and I'm so glad you're here with me today. If you're listening on a Thursday morning, you probably woke up to a few extra requests before breakfast, right? A missing permission slip, someone who can't find their favorite shirt, maybe a little tension in the air that nobody can quite name. Today, we're going to work with that feeling together, because raising calm kids starts with us finding our own steady ground first.

So let's settle in. Find yourself in a comfortable seat, somewhere you won't be interrupted for the next few minutes. If that's sitting in your car before you head into school pickup, that's perfect. If it's on your kitchen counter with your cold coffee, even better. You're here now, and that matters.

Take a gentle breath in through your nose, noticing the cool air as it enters. And out through your mouth, like you're softly fogging a mirror. One more time. In, and out. Feel that? That's your nervous system saying hello.

Now, here's what I want you to try today. It's called the Anchor and Release, and it's going to become your secret weapon for staying calm when your kids are spiraling. Picture this: your child is frustrated, escalating, and you feel that familiar tension climbing up your spine. Instead of matching their energy, you're going to do something different.

Place one hand on your heart and one on your belly. Feel them rise and fall. This is your anchor. Now, as you breathe, imagine roots growing from the soles of your feet deep into the earth. With each exhale, you're releasing the tension, the guilt, the need to fix everything right now. You're not cold or distant. You're present. You're solid. And kids can feel that. They calm down when we calm down. It's like magic, except it's actually neuroscience.

Do this for three breaths right now. Feel the weight of your body. Notice you're here, you're safe, and you've got this.

Here's your challenge for today: use this technique once before lunch and once before dinner. Just thirty seconds. Your kids might not even notice, but they'll feel the difference. You become the calm in their storm, and that's the greatest gift you can give them.

Thank you so much for joining me today on Mindful Parenting: Daily Tips for Raising Calm Kids. Please subscribe so we can explore more practices together. You're doing better than you think.

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