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Ben welcomes his first guest James Hansen, addictions counsellor, ADHD life coach and founder of the Escape the Chaos programme:

https://www.escape-the-chaos.co.uk/

In a powerfully honest and raw episode, Ben and James discuss the complexities of alcohol consumption, from the role it plays, to societal expectations, the damage to our mental health, and the importance of connection.

James shares his personal journey with alcohol, the impact of his family background, and how he navigates social situations without drinking.

They emphasise the need for self-awareness, planning, and support in making healthier choices regarding alcohol. The episode provides practical advice and support in navigating our lives with or without alcohol.

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Takeaways

Connection with others is crucial for mental health.
Alcohol can serve as a depressant, impacting mood.
Planning ahead can help manage alcohol consumption.
It's important to set healthy boundaries around drinking.
Self-awareness plays a key role in making choices about alcohol.
The societal expectation to drink can create pressure.
Support from friends can help in social situations.
Understanding personal triggers is essential for managing alcohol use.
Creating a life worth living involves developing healthy habits.
The opposite of addiction is connection, not sobriety.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction
04:54 James Hansen's Journey with Alcohol
10:02 The Impact of Family and Environment on Alcohol Use
15:01 Understanding Alcohol's Role in Mental Health
19:49 Navigating Social Situations and Alcohol Consumption
25:03 Strategies for Healthy Boundaries and Support
29:58 The Importance of Connection Over Alcohol
34:56 Planning Ahead for Alcohol-Free Experiences
40:00 Final Thoughts and Encouragement for Listeners