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Accidentally Intentional

Accidentally Intentional

By: Zoe Asher
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Are you part of the 60%?

60% of adults self-identify as lonely. We feel so alone...
But collectively, the majority of us are feeling alone, together!

We are in the midst of a loneliness epidemic. In fact, the CDC has said that loneliness on the body is as harmful as smoking 15 cigarettes a DAY.

Is it even worth trying to make friends?
What if I get rejected?
What if they break my trust and betray me?
What if they waste my time?
What if...
What if...
What if...

You're still worth finding and building rich friendships, and it IS possible even today.

Yes, it is a risk. Yes, any of the what-ifs above *could* happen. But, you know what else could happen? You find the friendship you've always wanted your entire life.

We're on a mission to DESTROY loneliness by building rich, meaningful friendships and relationships.

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For video versions of these episodes, head to the Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel!

You can connect with me on IG: @zoeasher or @accidentallyintentional. www.accidentallyintentionalpod.com .

To contact the podcast and/or request a booking for Zoe to be on your show or speak at your event, please email: contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com

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Episodes
  • How to Finally Connect With Your Family at the Thanksgiving Table (Drama-Free!)
    Nov 24 2025

    Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me!

    This year, you deserve to feel connected at the holiday table instead of bracing for awkward moments, family drama, or political side quests that derail the whole night. In this episode, I’m giving you a simple, repeatable plan for creating meaningful conversations around your holiday dinner table. You’ll learn how to set the emotional tone before anyone sits down, how to lead with connection instead of control, and the exact questions that can take your family deeper without stepping into landmines. I’m also showing you how to de-escalate tough moments, keep the peace, and walk away proud of how you showed up, even if someone else decides to bring the chaos.

    Special thanks to Party Q's for sponsoring this episode! Party Q's is my go-to tool for deeper conversations. You can download the app FOR FREE right now in the App Store/Google Play, or grab their brand new 400-question card game to bring straight to the table this holiday season! Use discount code ZOE at the checkout link below for $10 off! Get your Party Q's card game HERE!

    Support the show

    Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts by being Accidentally Intentional.

    Are you ready to tackle loneliness once and for all? Download the FREE '5 Steps To Build RICH Friendships' E-Book!

    Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!


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    17 mins
  • I Loved Being Social. Then I Started Talking to a Chatbot (REACTION)
    Nov 13 2025

    Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me!

    Well this is just chilling! I’m reacting to the Wall Street Journal piece “I Loved Being Social… Then I Started Talking to a Chatbot” by Alexandra Samuel and unpacking how daily AI chats can quietly crowd out real friendships. We’ll talk about why conversations with chatbots feel easier than talking to humans, how that “comfort” can dull our listening skills, and what guardrails help us keep tech as a tool rather than a substitute for community. I share practical habits to rebuild your people-first life, plus a simple prompt you can give your AI to nudge you back toward human connection. If you want to protect your attention, deepen your friendships, and avoid the slow slide into isolation, this one’s for you.

    Support the show

    Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts by being Accidentally Intentional.

    Are you ready to tackle loneliness once and for all? Download the FREE '5 Steps To Build RICH Friendships' E-Book!

    Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!


    Subscribe to the Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel!

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    17 mins
  • The AI "Friend" Necklace Is Here, & I’m Not Holding Back Anymore (Reaction)
    Oct 16 2025

    Hey fellow loneliness destroyer, text me!

    I cannot believe we are actually here. We’ve created an AI “friend” necklace...a device that listens to your conversations all day long and claims to make you feel less lonely. In this episode, I react to the viral Friend AI Pendant, the controversial million-dollar ad campaign, and why New Yorkers are literally vandalizing the subway ads in protest. But most importantly, I explain why this kind of technology isn’t the answer to loneliness, and how it’s about to make it worse.

    If you want to work with Zoe for 1-on-1 friendship coaching for a special rate, email subject line REAL FRIEND to contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com

    Read the article referenced in this episode HERE.

    Support the show

    Remember, you're worth having and building rich friendships! The connection you’ve been looking for is on the way, and it all starts by being Accidentally Intentional.

    Are you ready to tackle loneliness once and for all? Download the FREE '5 Steps To Build RICH Friendships' E-Book!

    Want to work with Zoe 1-on-1 for personalized friendship coaching for that extra push and source of accountability? Zoe has limited slots available on a rolling basis, so please email contact@accidentallyintentionalpod.com (subject line: COACH ME) and the team will be in touch with next steps!


    Subscribe to the Accidentally Intentional YouTube channel!

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    19 mins
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