In this heartfelt conversation, Jessica and Cassidy explore the evolution of their friendship over nearly two decades. They discuss the challenges and changes they've faced together, the impact of caregiving on their bond, and the importance of emotional support. Cassidy shares her journey in engineering, highlighting the unique experiences of women in STEM and the advocacy needed in male-dominated fields. The conversation emphasizes the significance of feeling one's emotions and the value of long-term friendships in navigating life's ups and downs.FOLLOW CASSIDY:https://www.instagram.com/cassstagram/MERCH!

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Takeaways:- Friendship can evolve through life changes.- Support and understanding are key in long-term friendships.- Navigating independence is a crucial part of growing up.- Emotional growth often comes from shared experiences.- Career choices can be influenced by personal connections.- Women in male-dominated fields face unique challenges.- Advocacy in the workplace is essential for change.- Feeling your feelings is important for mental health.- It's okay to change career paths as you grow.- Cherishing long-term friendships can provide stability.

In this episode of Access Denied, Jessica Ping and Eliza Rain discuss the complexities of living with disabilities, particularly focusing on accessibility challenges in London and the US. They explore the nuances of public transit, the impact of ableism, and the importance of intersectionality in the disability community. Eliza shares her experiences as a content creator and the challenges she faces online, including skepticism about her disability. The conversation emphasizes the need for empathy, understanding, and advocacy for disabled individuals, while also highlighting the emotional toll of navigating a world that often overlooks their needs.

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Takeaways:

• Eliza Rain is a disabled content creator living in London.
• Public transit in London presents unique challenges for wheelchair users.
• Accessibility in the US is often less comprehensive than in the UK.
• Traveling as a disabled person requires advanced planning and can be stressful.
• Ableism manifests in various forms, particularly in public spaces and travel.
• Intersectionality plays a crucial role in understanding the experiences of disabled individuals.
• Online discourse often invalidates the experiences of disabled people.
• Support systems, including partners and therapy, are vital for coping with ableism.
• The narrative of luxury experiences for disabled people is misleading.
• Existing as a disabled person is an act of rebellion.

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction and Friendship Origins

02:49 - Eliza Rain: A Content Creator's Journey

05:51 - Navigating Accessibility in London

08:54 - Public Transit: A Comparative Analysis

11:37 - The Reality of Last-Minute Travel

14:51 - Ableism in Travel and Accessibility

17:46 - The Cost of Being Disabled

20:59 - Conclusion: Reflections on Accessibility and Society

25:58 - Disability Rights in Intersectional Discourse

29:01 - The Challenge of Being Believed Online

32:52 - Access and Rights for Disabled Individuals

39:34 - Experiences of Discrimination: Visible vs. Invisible Disabilities

44:20 - Finding Strength in Community and Support

53:09 - Living as an Act of Rebellion

Keywords

disability, accessibility, ableism, public transit, London, travel, intersectionality, content creation, support, mental health

In this episode of Access Denied, host Jessica Ping connects with Fay Kanevsky, a multifaceted artist who shares her journey into stand-up comedy and her advocacy for disability awareness. They discuss the importance of visibility in media, the healing power of humor, and the unique challenges faced by disabled individuals. Fay shares her experiences with misophonia and the impact of societal perceptions on disability. The conversation emphasizes the need for empathy, understanding, and representation in the arts, while also providing insights into coping mechanisms and the power of laughter.

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- Small business: https://chaotic-bling.myshopify.com/

- Keep an eye out for Fay's short film for the ESDFC coming out in April!

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Takeaways

- Fay Kanevsky is a multifaceted artist, including acting, comedy, and advocacy.

- Stand-up comedy can be a powerful tool for disability awareness.

- Visibility in media is crucial for changing perceptions of disability.

- Humor can be a coping mechanism for trauma and challenges.

- Misophonia is a serious condition that affects daily life.

- Empathy and understanding are essential in disability advocacy.

- People often fear disability due to societal misconceptions.

- Comedy can help educate audiences about disability issues.

- Fay aims to change the narrative around disabled individuals in media

- Following your dreams is important, regardless of challenges.

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction and Connection

01:24 - Fay Kanevsky: A Multifaceted Creator

03:19 - The Journey into Stand-Up Comedy

06:58 - Comedy and Disability: A Unique Perspective

09:28 - Advocacy Through Humor

12:48 - The Healing Power of Laughter

14:51 - Navigating Trauma in Comedy

22:02 - Unexpected Encounters and Recognition

30:01 - The Need for Acceptance and Understanding

31:23 - Facing the Inevitable: Disability as a Natural Part of Life

34:23 - The Role of Media in Disability Representation

37:12 - Navigating the Film Industry: Challenges and Insights

39:24 - The Burden of Advocacy: Expectations and Realities

42:41 - Finding Joy in Music: Personal Picks and Recommendations

50:11 - Coping with Fear: Facing Personal Challenges

56:30 - Words of Wisdom: Embracing Your Journey