We dive into a message from a listener who has struggled with her confidence after her partner of four years attacked her appearance over a 10lb weight gain. If you are wondering how to handle body shaming or searching for signs of emotional and verbal abuse, this episode is for you.

The Real Talk Response

We don’t sugarcoat the truth: when a man degrades, disrespects, or demoralizes you, he is exhibiting the signs of a toxic boyfriend. We discuss how to begin building self-worth after verbal abuse and why the expectations you set for yourself dictate how others treat you.

In this episode, we explore:

• Identifying Toxic Patterns: How to spot a liar, a manipulator, or someone who is simply using you.

• Healing from Toxic Relationships: Why you must value your self-worth enough to walk away from someone who doesn't see your value.

• Waiting on God’s Best: Understanding that a sincere, honest man will honor you and seek a committed marriage rather than tearing you down.

The Biblical Standard

We wrap up by answering the question: What does the Bible say about how a man should treat a woman? By looking at 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 (NIV), we establish the Godly standards for any relationship. True love does not dishonor others; it protects, trusts, and perseveres. This is the foundation for building Godly esteem and finding a partner who loves you selflessly.

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