Episodes

  • Spirited
    Dec 19 2025

    Could Will Ferrell ever redeem an unredeemable Ryan Reynolds? In this episode of 82 Toothpicks, we unwrap the holiday musical Spirited and discover what a modern-day Christmas Carol can teach us about legacy and responsibility. It turns out, even a story full of ghosts, time travel, and musical numbers is packed with surprisingly practical estate planning lessons.

    Join us as we explore the core legal and emotional themes woven throughout the film. We discuss the immense responsibility of guardianship, what happens when someone is unwilling or unable to serve in that role, and how a well-thought-out estate plan can prevent family turmoil. We also dive into Clint's "unredeemable" status and what it teaches us about the lasting impact of our personal and professional legacy. You'll see these classic characters in a whole new light and maybe even learn a few 19th-century slang terms along the way!

    Here are a few moments we loved:

    🤔 Clint's controversial decision when asked to become his niece's guardian.

    🎶 The hilariously catchy "Good Afternoon" song and its historical (and offensive) roots.

    👻 The twist revealing the Ghost of Christmas Present's true identity as the original Scrooge.

    Ready to see estate planning through a new lens? Subscribe to 82 Toothpicks wherever you get your podcasts, and share this episode with a fellow movie lover. For deeper insights on securing your own legacy, check out Ethan's books and other resources at huizengalaw.com.

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    40 mins
  • National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation
    Dec 16 2025

    Ever wonder what estate planning lessons could be hiding in your favorite holiday comedy? In this episode, the 82 Toothpicks team breaks down the hilarious and chaotic holiday "classic," National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation, to uncover surprisingly serious takeaways about preparing for your family's future.

    Join us as we explore the legal and financial blunders behind Clark Griswold's quest for the perfect family Christmas. We'll dive into the Griswolds' mayhem to discuss core estate planning themes, from financial missteps to questions of incapacity and elder law. This conversation will give you a whole new, legally-savvy perspective on the importance of clear communication and preparing for the unexpected, proving that even a comedy can highlight the importance of protecting your family's legacy. Get ready to see the Griswolds' holiday crisis in a whole new light!

    Grab your eggnog and check out these key moments:

    👵 Great Aunt Bethany's questionable capacity and how it could impact family decisions.

    💰 The perils of financial planning based on expected money, like Clark's infamous swimming pool down payment.

    🎄 Clark's meltdown and the potential legal fallout from kidnapping his boss.

    Think your family has drama? Join the conversation by subscribing to 82 Toothpicks and share this episode with a fellow movie lover! You can also find Ethan's books on our website.

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    49 mins
  • Abandoned at Christmas: Legacy Lessons from Home Alone 🏠
    Dec 5 2025

    What happens when an eight-year-old is left behind—and there's no legal backup plan? In this episode of 82 Toothpicks, the team dives into Home Alone (1990) to unpack the estate planning chaos lurking beneath the Christmas comedy. As Kevin McCallister outwits two burglars and fends for himself, Ethan, Thad, and Joselyn explore the real-world legal questions raised when parents disappear, property is unprotected, and no one has power of attorney.

    They cover:

    • 🧒 Emergency guardianship and who can legally step in when a minor is home alone

    • 🏠 Personal property, home ownership, and what happens to a house full of minors (and mannequins)

    • 📑 POAs and temporary authority—why "just going to Paris" still demands a contingency plan

    • 🎄 The myth of McCallister wealth and the role of big families, long hallways, and overlooked legal details

    From Kevin's junk food binge to Buzz's tarantula, this episode balances holiday fun with sharp legal takeaways that highlight the importance of being ready for the unexpected.

    Follow 82 Toothpicks on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or YouTube, and check out Ethan's book It's Not Too Late for practical legacy strategies your family can count on—whether you're home or abroad.

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    53 mins
  • How the Grinch Stole Christmas🎄: Grievances, Guardianship, and the Gift of Community
    Nov 28 2025

    This week on 82 Toothpicks, the team breaks down How the Grinch Stole Christmas (the 2000 Jim Carrey version) to uncover what happens when resentment, rejection, and unclear community values collide. As the Grinch plots his revenge and Cindy Lou Who searches for something deeper than "stuff," Ethan, Joselyn, and Thad explore the real-life legal and legacy questions that bubble beneath the Christmas chaos.

    From the Grinch's traumatic backstory and abandonment in a basket to the town's questionable leadership and judgmental culture, this episode asks: who's really responsible for shaping a legacy? The team touches on the importance of community, the role of formative experiences, and how resentment can derail generosity if we're not intentional about what we pass on. Plus, they rate the movie on their "laugh, cry, think" scale—and one host surprises the others with an unexpected perfect score.

    🎄 Highlights include:

    • Cindy Lou Who as the voice of values over possessions

    • The Grinch's exile and return through a legacy lens

    • What it means to give a legacy gift that transforms, not just transfers

    Subscribe to 82 Toothpicks, share with a fellow Grinch or Who, and grab Ethan's books to learn how to turn holiday drama into durable plans that actually work.

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    47 mins
  • No Capes, No Excuses: The Incredibles and Superpowered Planning for the Modern Family
    Nov 21 2025

    🎙️ 82 Toothpicks | Estate Planning Meets the Movies

    What happens when a superhero dad hits a midlife crisis, a stay-at-home mom stretches herself thin, and their baby literally bursts into flames? This week, the 82 Toothpicks crew tackles The Incredibles, Pixar's not-just-for-kids classic packed with family tension, secret lairs, and estate planning gold.

    From the opening lawsuit over an unwanted rescue (hello, living will!) to a late-stage voicemail about a baby with "special needs" (you guessed it—special needs trust), we break down how the Parr family's real struggles mirror real-world legal issues. Along the way, listen for Bob's cubicle rebellion, a Medicaid metaphor, Frozone's domestic detour as a spousal priority moment, and Gazerbeam's cryptic cave message as a surprisingly solid example of leaving instructions for the next generation.

    🦸‍♂️ What We Cover:

    • Living wills, legacy, and superheroes in hiding

    • Why Syndrome is the ultimate predator (and a great lesson in guardianship gone wrong)

    • How the government's plan (and The Incredibles' secret identities) reflect common estate planning obstacles

    • A rapid-fire superhero name game with questionable scoring and plenty of laughs

    Ready to rethink capes and capacity planning? Tune in and join the conversation—because even superheroes need an estate plan.

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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • Count on It: Guardianship, Fiduciaries, and Family Fallout in Rain Man
    Nov 14 2025

    🎙️ 82 Toothpicks | Estate Planning Meets the Movies

    What happens when an estranged son discovers his father left everything to a brother he didn't know existed? In this episode of 82 Toothpicks, the team breaks down Rain Man—not just as a drama about family and connection, but as a surprisingly sharp case study in guardianship, fiduciary duty, and what happens when trust decisions leave emotional fallout.

    Ethan, Thad, and Joselyn explore the estate planning dynamics revealed through Charlie and Raymond's journey, including the implications of Raymond's placement in Walbrook and the role of Dr. Bruner as trustee. They examine the court hearing scene as a real-world moment of determining capacity and guardianship, and unpack the ethical (and legal) boundaries of Charlie's actions—from attempting to leverage his relationship for financial gain to eventually advocating for his brother's dignity. The team also reflects on how Raymond's routine and preferences reveal a deeper truth: honoring someone's legacy is about more than money—it's about respect.

    ♟️ What We Cover:

    • The will, the Buick, and $3 million held in trust

    • Who controls Raymond's care—and what it means legally

    • The courtroom capacity hearing and honoring autonomy

    • Fiduciary tensions between love, money, and responsibility

    👉 Follow 82 Toothpicks on Spotify or Apple Podcasts, and don't forget to like, subscribe, and ring the bell on YouTube. For more legacy lessons, check out Ethan's It's Not Too Late book series.

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Back to the Future: Time Travel, Trusts, and the Power of a Backup Plan
    Nov 7 2025

    Back to the Future isn't just a sci-fi classic—it's a blueprint for what happens when you fail to plan for the unexpected. In this episode of 82 Toothpicks, Ethan, Joselyn, and Thad take a DeLorean-deep dive into the estate planning lessons hidden in Marty McFly's journey through time.

    From Marty's handwritten letter to Doc (a surprising example of fiduciary communication) to the clock tower scene as a metaphor for contingency planning, the team unpacks real-world legal strategies behind the chaos. They examine how guardianship, informed consent, and powers of attorney play out when teenagers make life-altering decisions—and how legacy can be reshaped by a single action. The episode also highlights issues of beneficiary designation, personal property transfers, and why having a backup plan (or 1.21 gigawatts) matters.

    🕰️ What We Cover:

    • Marty's letter to Doc as an unintentional legal safeguard

    • Estate planning backup plans mirrored in the lightning strike timing

    • Guardianship and consent in high-stakes teen decision-making

    • How one change in the past rewrites a family's future and inheritance

    👉 Love movies with meaning? Follow 82 Toothpicks on Spotify or Apple Podcasts, and don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell on YouTube. Because even time travelers need a solid estate plan.

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    1 hr
  • Black Flame Candles, Guardianship Gaps, and the Trouble with Undead Estate Plans: Estate Planning Lessons from Hocus Pocus
    Oct 31 2025

    Ready for a Halloween classic with a legal twist? In this episode of 82 Toothpicks, the team sinks their teeth into Hocus Pocus, unraveling the surprising estate planning lessons hiding among witches, spellbooks, and immortal cats. As Max lights the black flame candle and chaos breaks loose, the crew highlights how poor planning—and worse execution—can unleash real-world legal nightmares.

    Ethan, Joselyn, and Thad explore how the Sanderson sisters' return raises questions about capacity, consent, and durable powers of attorney, especially when adults are bewitched and unavailable. They dig into the dangers of powerful magical assets without proper safeguards, and how the candle itself mirrors a trust provision waiting for the wrong trigger. The conversation also covers guardianship issues, temporary authority, and why even the undead should think about the rule against perpetuities.

    🕯️ What We Cover:

    • The black flame candle as a metaphor for triggering trust provisions

    • Salem's absent adults and the need for clear emergency guardianship

    • Fiduciary responsibility and controlling dangerous legacy assets (like spellbooks)

    • Why the Sandersons are a case study in "ruling from the grave"

    👉 Like what you heard? Follow 82 Toothpicks on Spotify or Apple Podcasts, and subscribe + ring the bell on YouTube for more smart, curious legal breakdowns of your favorite movies. Legacy doesn't have to be scary—unless you skip the planning.

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    59 mins