7. We Argued Right Before Recording — Here's How We Worked Through It
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7. We Argued Right Before Recording — Here's How We Worked Through It
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About this listen
Right before hitting record, we got into an argument. The kind where we both felt misunderstood, defensive, and like the other was the problem. But, unlike in the past, we were able to work through it. That process is exactly what we want to share with you today.
In this real-time breakdown, we share how control shows up in subtle ways in marriage, even when you’re both trying your best. We talk about the tension between autonomy and attachment, the “no, unless” trap that often hides in people-pleasing, and how we each self-confronted to reconnect.
You’ll hear:
- What triggered the argument and how it spiraled
- The exact moment we hit reset and how we did it
- Scripts to move from defensiveness to collaboration
- Why true repair often starts with looking for what truth there is in your partners perception of you
If you’ve ever felt like one of you has to lose for the other to win, this episode will offer a new way forward. One built on mutual respect, honesty, and yes, a little messiness.
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