Why do certain situations make your chest tighten or your voice go quiet, even when you know you're capable?

This episode explores why those reactions aren't random, and how habits formed very early in life can still be shaping how you show up today.

Episode Description

Have you ever noticed how your body reacts before your mind has time to catch up?

Your chest tightens.
Your shoulders lift.
Your voice gets quieter, or disappears altogether.

And afterwards, you wonder: Why did I do that? I know better.

In this episode, I explore why these moments of hesitation, freezing, or holding back aren't confidence problems or personal flaws, they're often old habits that once helped you feel safe.

I share a real client story where what looked like "feeling stuck" turned out to be a deeply familiar pattern, formed very early in life to protect love, safety, and belonging. Not something to fix. Not something to push through. Something to understand.

This is a gentle, grounded conversation about:

• why we develop habits as children

• why they stay with us for decades

• and how curiosity, not force, is what actually allows change

If you've ever felt frustrated with yourself for reacting in ways you don't fully understand, this episode will help you see yourself differently and move forward with far more compassion and clarity.

What You'll Take From This Episode

• Why many adult habits begin as early childhood coping strategies

• How to recognise when your nervous system shifts into protection mode

• The difference between intuition and fear-based protection

• A powerful reframe: today's limiting belief was yesterday's solution

• Why awareness softens patterns that effort never could

• One simple question that helps old habits stop running the show

Support & Next Steps

1:1 Coaching (February – 2 spaces)
The work you heard in this episode is exactly how I support my clients, slowing things down, understanding old habits, and responding differently now.

No pressure. Just a conversation.

https://jennymcoaching.com/contactme/

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Remember

Nothing you're doing is random.

The habits you judge once kept you safe.

You don't need fixing.

You need understanding.

And that changes everything.