What happens when erotic curiosity, psychology, and lived experience collide?

In this special solo episode, M reflects on turning 40 and one year of The Erotic Realm Podcast — sharing the personal, psychological, and erotic motivations behind creating a platform devoted to desire, power, and the erotic mind.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why desire is as unique as personality.
• How power and eroticism shape identity across a lifetime.
• Midlife as a psychological turning point, not a crisis.
• What listening to hundreds of erotic stories has revealed.
• Autism, kink, and why structure can feel safer than spontaneity.
• How M became a Sexologist.
• What's next for The Erotic Realm and the Psychology of Desire.

Research article: "Comforting, Reassuring, and…Hot": A Qualitative Exploration of Engaging in Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Submission, Sadism and (Sado)masochism and Kink from the Perspective of Autistic Adults.

This episode is both a celebration and a thesis — a reflection on what the first year of The Erotic Realm has taught me, and where the psychology of desire is heading next.

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Thanks for listening!

Stay perverted,

Emma

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