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328. Big Emotions Happen. They Don't Excuse Bad Behavior

328. Big Emotions Happen. They Don't Excuse Bad Behavior

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 It’s become a rallying cry. Parents are told they must validate a child’s emotions during a full-blown tantrum. Adults expect other adults to accept and validate emotional outbursts without question. The message is everywhere. In many ways, this is a good thing. For a long time, emotions were dismissed, minimized, or shamed. But somewhere along the way, validating emotions started to mean something it was never meant to mean. Does validation require standing by while a toddler destroys property? Does it mean accountability disappears? Does it mean every emotional reaction is justified simply because it exists? Or is there a way to validate emotions while still holding clear standards for behavior? I believe there is. In this episode, I unpack what emotional validation means, what it doesn’t, and how we can navigate big emotions, our own and other people’s, without losing responsibility, boundaries, or wisdom. If you’ve ever felt confused, pressured, or unsure about how to handle intense emotions, this episode is for you.
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