Share your TTC story ✨

Let’s be real for a second.

Trying to conceive can be absolutely bloody exhausting.
Not just emotionally, but on a whole-body, nervous-system, running-on-fumes level.

In this episode of The Wilde Way, we’re talking about why trying for a baby can feel so draining, even when you’re “coping”, doing all the right things, and holding it together on the outside.

Because TTC isn’t just about tracking cycles and timing sex.
It’s the waiting.
The hoping.
The bracing.
The monthly emotional gymnastics.
That quiet urgency humming away in the background like a dodgy fridge you can’t ignore.

And yep, your body feels that.

In this episode, I unpack why urgency and waiting don’t just live in your head, but in your nervous system, and why nervous system regulation isn’t some fluffy wellness add-on for fertility. It’s actually pretty central to how supported and safe your body feels while you’re doing this.

I also share a bit of my own recent wake-up call around depletion, burnout, postpartum recovery, and what happens when a body has been giving for a long time and finally goes, “Okay… that’s enough now.”

Inside the episode, we chat about:

• Why trying to conceive often becomes a full-body state of vigilance
• How urgency and pressure impact your nervous system and fertility
• Why your body may shift into protection mode when it’s been under strain
• The difference between hope and urgency (and why they’re not the same thing)
• Why “just relax” is trash advice and can honestly get in the bin
• Five practical, doable ways to regulate your nervous system
• Why rest, rhythm, and safety matter more than trying harder

This episode is for the woman who’s been giving a lot.
Holding a lot.
And quietly wondering why she feels so bloody tired.

You’re not broken.
Your body isn’t failing you.
It’s communicating.

💛 Support mentioned in this episode
If listening to this makes you think, “I don’t want to do this alone anymore,” I offer free one-on-one preconception chats. Zero pressure. Just a real, grounded conversation.

👉 Book a free preconception chat here:
https://calendly.com/abi-wilde/30min

🕯 Tools I

If you’re craving a little extra support, I’ve got some beautiful free resources to get you started.

You can grab my IVF Prep Checklist here:
https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/ivf-prep-checklist

And if you’re in that in-between, the waiting, the overthinking… I’ve also created a Two-Week Wait Support Kit to help you feel more grounded:
https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/two-week-wait

If you’d like more personalised support, you can book a free 30-minute call with me here:
https://calendly.com/abi-wilde/30min

We can chat through your fertility journey and what your next steps could look like.

I’m creating something really special… BLYOOM — a supportive app for women trying to conceive, with nervous system tools to hold you through the real moments… the two-week wait, negative tests, pregnancy announcements… all of it.

If that feels like something you need right now, you can join the waitlist here:
https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/blyoom-waitlist

And if you want more, come hang out with me on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/abi.wilde

It’s where I share free tips, tools, and fertility support for whole-body healing.