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Alright lovely, let’s talk about the phrase that makes my left eye twitch.

“Unexplained infertility.”

If you’ve been told everything looks normal
If you’ve done the tests, the supplements, the IVF cycles
If you’ve quietly wondered if it’s you that’s broken

This episode is for you.

Today on The Wilde Way, I’m joined by Gabriela Rosa, globally recognised fertility specialist, Harvard Doctor of Public Health candidate, and one of the sharpest minds in evidence-based fertility care.

And this is not a sugar-coated chat.

We unpack why unexplained infertility is often not unexplained at all, why more IVF cycles aren’t always the answer, and why so many women get stuck on the fertility hamster wheel being told to just “try again”.

Spoiler:
It’s not because you’re lazy, broken, or too old.
It’s usually because the right questions haven’t been asked yet.

This conversation is equal parts science, truth bombs, validation, and relief.
Less “just push harder”, more “let’s actually figure out what’s going on”.

What we cover

• Why unexplained infertility is one of the most misleading fertility diagnoses
• The real reasons IVF cycles fail, even when tests look “normal”
• Why doing more isn’t always better
• The role of inflammation, stress, metabolic health, and lifestyle
• Why sperm quality matters just as much as egg quality
• The difference between normal vs optimal fertility markers
• How genetics and epigenetics influence fertility outcomes

The big reframe

There is no simple solution to a complex fertility problem.
But when you slow down, zoom out, and look at the whole picture, things can shift.

This episode isn’t about blame.
It’s about clarity, agency, and better options.

About Gabriela

Gabriela Rosa is an internationally recognised fertility specialist and researcher supporting couples with unexplained infertility, recurrent miscarriage, and failed IVF.

📍 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabrielarosafertility/
🌍 Website: https://fertilitybreakthrough.com

If you’re craving a little extra support, I’ve got some beautiful free resources to get you started.

You can grab my IVF Prep Checklist here:
https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/ivf-prep-checklist

And if you’re in that in-between, the waiting, the overthinking… I’ve also created a Two-Week Wait Support Kit to help you feel more grounded:
https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/two-week-wait

If you’d like more personalised support, you can book a free 30-minute call with me here:
https://calendly.com/abi-wilde/30min

We can chat through your fertility journey and what your next steps could look like.

I’m creating something really special… BLYOOM — a supportive app for women trying to conceive, with nervous system tools to hold you through the real moments… the two-week wait, negative tests, pregnancy announcements… all of it.

If that feels like something you need right now, you can join the waitlist here:
https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/blyoom-waitlist

And if you want more, come hang out with me on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/abi.wilde

It’s where I share free tips, tools, and fertility support for whole-body healing.