Today is the seventh episode in my Fundamentals of Parenting Teens podcast series.

If you're dealing with a teenager who seems to push back against everything you say, punishment or consequences aren’t the answer and will probably make things worse.

In this episode, I'll explain why traditional discipline backfires with teenagers and what actually works instead.

You'll learn why punishment creates rebellion in teens and what to do instead. You can end the constant power struggles by learning how to support your teen’s autonomy while staying connected and improving their behavior.

You can also watch this series on YouTube.

Check out episodes 14 and 91 for more about backing up and allowing natural consequences.

Show Notes and Transcript
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