In this heartfelt and honest conversation, I’m joined by Brenna Blain—wife, mom, Contemporary Theologian, and author of the bestselling book Can I Say That? How Unsafe Questions Lead Us to the Real God.

Together, we dive into the taboo topics the church often avoids: Doubt, Mental Health, Sexuality, and the Real God Who Meets Us There.

Brenna shares her personal journey from black-and-white theology student to a voice for trauma-informed, biblically grounded compassion. She opens up about her experiences with mental illness, same-sex attraction, and the messy, beautiful tension of faith and lived experience.

We talk about how the church can unintentionally wound those already hurting—and how scripture, when approached with care and honesty, can move from wounding to healing.

If you’ve ever asked yourself: “Can I say that?” — this conversation will remind you: you’re not alone, and God can handle your questions.

We cover:

• Why asking hard questions isn’t a threat to faith
• How to engage scripture with honesty and compassion
• Why trauma-informed theology matters
• How faith intersects with mental health and sexuality
• Experiencing God in the midst of personal struggle

Trigger Warning: This episode includes discussions of mental health, suicidal ideation, drug overdose, and trauma. Please listen with care.

Connect with Brenna:

Buy Can I Say That? → https://www.canisaythatbook.com
Partner with her speaking ministry → www.brennablain.com
Follow Brenna on Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/bunonmyhead