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23. Are You Over-Mothering? Balance Feminine Energy so Your Teen Boy Can Lead

23. Are You Over-Mothering? Balance Feminine Energy so Your Teen Boy Can Lead

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Raising teenage boys can pull us toward fixing, micromanaging, and doing it all. But softness isn’t weakness—it’s the doorway that calls our sons higher. In this heart-forward conversation, I unpack how to stay grounded in your feminine (nurturing, receptive, wise) while giving your son room to practice his masculine (action, responsibility, protection). I share a personal moment with my 16-year-old that shows what happens when we step back with trust—our boys step up.

What you’ll learn

  • The age shift: signs your boy is reaching for independence (11–13+)

  • The posture shift: from controlling to inviting, guiding, and receiving

  • Simple “step-up” moments: carry the groceries, lock the doors, take initiative

  • How to balance motherly wisdom with trust in his decisions

  • Why staying soft actually helps him grow strong and honorable

Reflect & journal

  • Where am I fixing instead of holding space?

  • One small way I can invite him to rise this week

  • A place I’m ready to release control and show trust
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