In Part 2 of this heartfelt and practical series, Shelly continues her conversation with parent coach Diana Davidson — and this time, they're moving beyond the emotions of drop-off and diving into what actually happens next.

Once the dorm room is set up and the goodbye tears dry, a brand-new season of parenting begins. The rhythms change, communication shifts, and the “How often should I check in?” questions start rolling in. And if you’ve ever struggled with things like Life360, texting boundaries, or knowing how to support your college student without hovering — you’re not alone.

Diana offers real-life strategies for navigating this new dynamic with confidence, peace, and connection. From communication rhythms to practical boundaries to fun creative ways to stay close across the miles, this episode gives you tools you can use today.

Whether your student calls every day or hasn’t texted you back all week, this conversation will help you build trust, stay grounded, and embrace this next chapter with intention.

Key Takeaways

• Parenting from a distance requires a shift from manager to guide on the side.
• Every child has different communication rhythms — honor their personality, not someone else’s.
• Before setting expectations, have a simple conversation: “What kind of communication feels good for you?”
• Boundaries create trust — and reduce anxiety on both sides.
• If Life360 causes stress or control, ask: Is this for my child or for me?
• Simple connection points (photos, pets, plants, playlists) can keep relationships warm without pressure.
• Your child grows when you give them space — and your confidence grows too.

Links and Resources

• Connect with Diana: https://dianadavidsoncoaching.com
• Diana’s free parent care package
• “They’re in College… Now What?” free webinar
• Join the Simple Shifts newsletter: https://midlifemadesimplepodcast.com

Resources:

• Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/shellyniehaus/
• Simple Shifts Newsletter: https://midlifemadesimplepodcast.com/tips
• Women Entrepreneurs In Prayer Call - https://midlifemadesimplepodcast.com/prayer