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"I'm telling you, this is how. You have to go through the process of initiation to even have the embodiment inside to meet them in a way that they are going to let you through their 7 gates and actually then give you the glory of what's in there. You don't get through those gates for free. You got to earn it. That's the initiation." says Mike Elliot, men's transformation guide and mentor, who joins The King Within podcast to illuminate what it truly means to become an initiated man—and the real-world rewards that follow, from deep emotional intimacy to revitalized passion in relationships.

In this episode of The King Within, Mike Elliot shares why initiation isn’t a solo journey, but a descent—from head to heart, from isolation to relational healing. Through raw stories from his own evolution, Mike Elliot explains why men freeze, shut down, or resist fatherhood and how these patterns are invitations to break intergenerational cycles and step into leadership. He offers a riveting look at how the masculine and feminine can harmonize—how praise, presence, and attunement unlock new dimensions of connection, not only with a partner but with life itself.

Tune in to discover how initiation, embodied presence, and men's work are redefining leadership, intimacy, and purpose for modern men—and why thriving relationships are never just relationships, but the gym where greatness is forged.

1. Initiation happens in relationship, not isolation. Find a mentor or group where you feel safe and lean in—transformation breeds in connection, not solitude.
2. Attunement is healing. Practice being deeply present and receptive with those around you—let them feel seen, heard, and valued.
3. Embrace discomfort as your path to growth. Shadow and resistance aren’t flaws—they’re invitations to integrate, mature, and lead with authenticity.
4. Prioritize clarity, confidence, and connection in your relationships. Show up with the 3 C’s—mirror your partner’s brilliance and praise their gifts daily.
5. Stop waiting to “feel ready.” Take courageous action—integrate your fears, let go of control, and step into the next chapter of your evolution now.

"Initiation is actually dropping from the head into the heart, doing the descent into this physical body, the journey that it's already experienced that hasn't fully integrated."

"There needs to be an understanding that every relationship that comes to us in life is inviting us to use the medium of that relationship for our own awakening."

"When we learn how to meet them, when we learn how to understand their world and make that more of our mission and take up more space to learn how to do that well, it will soften and open them, and they will want to give you the juicy feminine."

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