What happens when you stop hiding the parts of yourself you’ve been taught to dislike?

In this deeply personal episode, I share an unexpected conversation that began with a woman’s new hairstyle and turned into a raw exploration of self-perception, courage, and the unhelpful nuances we often carry over from childhood.

From teasing in the schoolyard to throwaway comments that stick like glue, I unpack how seemingly small moments can shape the way we see ourselves and how, over time, they can quietly limit how we show up in the world.

With honesty, humour, and a few confessions of my own, I invite you to consider your quirks - the imperfections, oddities, and habits you may have tried to hide, and see them for what they truly are - the most human, relatable, and beautiful parts of you.

If you’ve ever felt “not enough” because of how you look, speak, or show up, this episode will help you uncover how to turn those so-called flaws into your most endearing superpowers.

Key takeaways:

o How vulnerability can open a deeper sense of connection and courage.

o The limitations of holding onto comments made to us as kids.

o How past insecurities can shape subtle choices we make today.

o The surprising way our perceived flaws can become our most endearing features.

o The freedom that comes from owning your unique qualities and quirks.

o A behavioural science concept that shows how your bloopers can make you more appealing.

o The value of normalising our imperfections as part of being human.

Where to find me:

Website: Kim Payne

LinkedIn: Kim Payne

Instagram: @iamkimpayne

Facebook: KimPayneBiz

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