I filmed this episode from a hotel patio in New Delhi - and that alone felt strange to say.

I hadn’t really been in India like this for almost six years. In that time, I moved countries, built a career, left a stable job, and quietly questioned who I was more times than I can count.

On this trip, someone casually called me a “white Indian.”
They didn’t mean it harshly -but it hit me harder than I expected.

In the West, I’m Indian.
In India, I’m foreign.

And somewhere along the way, I realised I’d been living between identities, constantly adapting, softening parts of myself, and editing who I was just to fit in.

This episode isn’t about answers - it’s about realisations.

We talk about:

• What it feels like to be a “foreign Indian” in your own country

• Code-switching, accents, and editing yourself to belong

• Why living between cultures isn’t a weakness - it’s perspective

• A Māori concept about roots that finally made sense to me in India

• Seeing your parents’ past not as pressure, but as a launchpad

• Why family is the hardest - and most important - relationship

• And the realisation that you don’t find identity… you decide it

  
  

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