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009 - The Lazy Perfectionist

009 - The Lazy Perfectionist

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In this episode of Navigating a Broken Vessel, host Dave Harris takes listeners on a deep dive into his personal ADHD world and what he calls "The Lazy Perfectionist."

Dave shares a story from his 6th grade days when he tried to woo a girl named "Sally" by telling her to "Shut up!" This funny and relatable anecdote sets the stage for a discussion on how perfectionism and a fear of failure can often lead to a mental paralysis that keeps us from taking the first step.

Throughout the episode, Dave explores:

  • The Planning Trap: How over-planning can feel like progress while actually preventing action.

  • Mental Paralysis: The feeling of being physically unable to start a task, even when you know it's important.

  • Breaking the Cycle: Dave's practical strategy of focusing on just the very first step, like sitting in a chair or opening a computer.

  • The Power of Medication: How understanding ADHD and using appropriate tools can help manage symptoms like rumination and procrastination.

Whether you struggle with ADHD yourself or just find yourself stuck in a cycle of planning without doing, this episode offers a humorous and insightful look at how to overcome the hurdles of your own mind.


Disclaimer: I am not a mental health professional, and this should not be taken as any kind of medical advice. If you need assistance, I highly recommend working with mental health professionals. I use many myself.

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