(aka the one where you stop withholding sex as leverage and start using it as sacred lovership)

In this soul-punch of an episode, I sit down with Emma Galland—somatic sex coach, founder of Tantric Awakenings, and creator of The Warrior’s Calling—a 12-month brotherhood guiding men through the seasons of their sexual lives. And let me tell you… this one cracked me open in the best way.Because I was that woman.

The one with all the spiritual tools and all the resentment.

The one who weaponized her emotions, withheld sex, blamed her man for everything…

And called it “conscious relating.”

But what if...👉🏼 Withholding sex is like telling a man, I don’t love you?👉🏼 His premature ejaculation is actually a nervous system collapse, not a lack of care?👉🏼 Every time he shuts down, he’s silently begging to be met without judgment?

In this conversation, Emma reveals:

• Why almost all men are stuck in “Summer Mode”—chasing climax, release, and then disappearing
• How porn has desensitized not just their cocks, but their hearts
• The truth about men and vulnerability (hint: they’re not shallow. They’re scared.)
• What’s really happening when your man can’t get hard—or comes too fast
• The hidden damage of spiritual superiority + the “high priestess trying to fix her king” energy
• How to stop using your power to control—and start using it to invite
• The 4 erotic seasons of male sexuality
• Why your praise, presence, and softness are the most potent alchemy on the planet

This one is for the women who say they want to be met…

But haven’t realized they’ve never actually made it safe for their man to show up....It might just change how you see men forever 😉

PLAY WITH EMMA HERE:

https://tantric-awakenings.com/

https://www.instagram.com/tantricawakenings/

Pssst!! If your sex life feels stale, distant, or performative…

• 🚫 You’re not broken.
• 🚫 Your partner isn’t hopeless.
• 😉 And your relationship isn’t over.

You’re just out of alignment with your truest erotic signature.

There are 12 Eros-Scope™ Signs...each with a totallllly different turn-on style. 😱

When you’re not clear on and connected to yours, nothing works.

BUT! There’s a version of you who knows exactly what she wants—and how to ask for it.

⁠Take the Eros-Scope™ Quiz to find her 🥵⁠

(+ give your partner a map to meet you there ❤️‍🔥)