Episodes

  • A Scandalous '50s Holiday Love Affair- S2E3- Carol

    A Scandalous '50s Holiday Love Affair- S2E3- Carol
    Dec 23 2025
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    This week on the pod, we’re wrapping ourselves in the soft lighting and emotional devastation of Carol, the love story that launched a thousand longing stares and sapphic age-gap fantasies. We talk Cate Blanchett’s impeccable portrayal of a fancy, dominant older woman, Rooney Mara’s baby gay awakening, and the incredibly unfair expectation of straightness that plagues us all. From forbidden romance and stolen moments to the most intense eye contact ever put on screen, Carol proves that yearning is a love language (especially for lesbians). Grab a martini and a cigarette, and join us as we unpack this holiday-adjacent, pearl-clutching WLW classic!


    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Join us next week as we pop over to Nashville for some New Year’s festivities with I Hate New Year’s, available for rent on Amazon prime, fandango, and YouTube!

    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes

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    1 hr and 10 mins
  • Guardian Angels and Religious Trauma Galore- S2E2- A New York Christmas Wedding

    Guardian Angels and Religious Trauma Galore- S2E2- A New York Christmas Wedding
    Dec 16 2025
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    This week, we’re heading to the Big Apple for a very queer holiday detour with A New York Christmas Wedding!
    We break down this sapphic Christmas romance full of missed chances, divine interference, and the classic question: what if you’d chosen her? From emotional time jumps to homophobic priests to very gay regret, we talk about what works, what doesn’t quite work, and why this movie hits a nerve for so many people, around the holidays.


    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Don’t miss next week, where we will break down the lesbian age-gap holiday classic, Carol! This movie is available to stream on HBO Max!


    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes


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    59 mins
  • Two Rachels, Spitting & Tops/Bottoms-S1E23-Disobedience

    Two Rachels, Spitting & Tops/Bottoms-S1E23-Disobedience
    Nov 18 2025
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    This week on But I’m a Lesbian, we’re diving into Disobedience! It’s a movie with a lot of drama, two beautiful, famous Rachels, and one very famous sex scene!
    We cover forbidden love, religious trauma, community drama worthy of its own group chat, and everything in between!
    Don’t miss our “WLW History” segment on lesbian identities/labels and sexual preferences!

    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! And make sure to tune in next week for our season 1 finale! We discuss a Thanksgiving film, Lez Bomb, and feature an exclusive interview with Marita Prodger of The Ultimatum: Queer Love season 2!

    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Follow @butimalesbianpod on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave us a five star review. Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes
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    1 hr and 12 mins
  • 1940s Poly Queers & German Noses- S1E22- Aimee & Jaguar

    1940s Poly Queers & German Noses- S1E22- Aimee & Jaguar
    Nov 11 2025
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    This week, we're traveling back to 1940s Berlin to discuss the incredibly sad and gay film, Aimee & Jaguar. This episode is gonna get political, so brace yourself. We also unpack the interesting decisions made by the main characters, share our frustrations with their relationship, and (as always) dish on the sapphic drama. Plus, listen to us talk about our extremely limited German vocabulary, the soundtrack to Miss Congeniality, and answer some Cookie Jar Q's!

    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Next week, we are discussing the instant classic, 2017's Disobedience! This film is available on Kanopy for free, and for rent on Apple TV!


    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.
    Follow @butimalesbianpod on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave us a five star review.

    Do you need some sapphic advice? Fill out our "Dear Dykes" form to submit your dilemma, and we may choose it for a future pod episode! https://form.jotform.com/butimalesbianpod/dear-dykes
    Follow us on social media (ig/tiktok/facebook): @butimalesbianpod
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    1 hr and 20 mins
  • Fight Club, But Make It Girly Pop!- S1E21- Bottoms

    Fight Club, But Make It Girly Pop!- S1E21- Bottoms
    Nov 4 2025
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    What do you get when you mix lesbians, teenage angst, and a literal fight club? Bottoms! We’re diving into the campy chaos of 2023’s sapphic cult hit and debating whether it’s feminist brilliance or just a hilarious fever dream. Spoiler: it might be both. We also talk about our experiences with fighting in school, and a “What’s Up With the Heteros?” segment!

    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Stick around for next week, because we’re time-traveling from queer teen mayhem to tragic, forbidden wartime romance with Aimée & Jaguar.

    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.
    Follow @butimalesbianpod on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave us a five star review.
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    1 hr and 4 mins
  • Witch Trials and Not Being a Man-Hater- S1E20- Fear Street Part Three: 1666

    Witch Trials and Not Being a Man-Hater- S1E20- Fear Street Part Three: 1666
    Oct 28 2025
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    The Fear Street saga comes full circle in Part Three: 1666! This week, Angelina and her girlfriend Yamie are taking us straight to the heart of Shadyside’s witchy, sapphic origins. From forbidden love to Puritan panic, they unpack how Sarah Fier went from queer girl in love to the legend everyone feared. Expect talk of curses, witchcraft, and the emotional finale that turned a horror trilogy into a love story through time. Grab your lanterns because things are about to get gayer and scarier!


    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Don’t miss next week’s episode! We are going to recap the semi-raunchy lesbian high school movie, Bottoms! This movie is available for rent on Apple TV and Amazon Prime.

    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Follow @butimalesbianpod on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave us a five star review.
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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • 70s Summer Camp Slasher and Air Sign Dominance- S1E19- Fear Street Part Two: 1978

    70s Summer Camp Slasher and Air Sign Dominance- S1E19- Fear Street Part Two: 1978
    Oct 21 2025
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    This week we’re heading to Camp Nightwing for Fear Street Part Two: 1978. Katlynn and special guest host, Victoria, break down the film’s slasher nostalgia, excessive hetero sex scenes, and outhouse trauma. Pack your bug spray and your emotional baggage… it’s gonna be a bloody good time. Also, hear us talk about Seth Rogen, Halloween costumes, and period pieces!


    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Next week, we will end our Halloween episodes with the final movie in the trilogy, Fear Street Part Three: 1666. Join Angelina and her girlfriend, Yamie, as they head back to the witch trial days.

    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Follow @butimalesbianpod on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave us a five star review.
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    1 hr and 12 mins
  • A/S/L? Old School Chat Rooms and WLW Horror Vibes- S1E18-Fear Street Part One: 1994

    A/S/L? Old School Chat Rooms and WLW Horror Vibes- S1E18-Fear Street Part One: 1994
    Oct 14 2025
    🎙️ But I’m a Lesbian
    Two lesbians. Two mics. Endless hot takes.

    Welcome to Shadyside, babes! For the first stop in our Fear Street trilogy, Katlynn and special guest host, Creative Director, Juanita, dive into Fear Street Part One: 1994, where lesbian love literally defies death. Expect chaotic theories, queer horror appreciation, and a passionate debate about who we would munch, merge, or murder. Warning: contains descriptions of gore, married couple dynamics, and thirsting over the characters from every millenial’s sexual awakening film, The Mummy!

    📲 New episodes weekly. See you next Tuesday! Next week, we continue on in the horror trilogy with Fear Street Part Two: 1978! It’s giving camp in more ways than one! This episode will be hosted by Katlynn and our amazing producer/mixer, Victoria! This film is available on Netflix!

    But I’m a Lesbian is hosted and produced by Katlynn Beatty and Angelina Herrera. Production and Mixing by Victoria Shifflett. Creative direction and video editing provided by Juanita Iriarte. Music by Stiletto Falsetto.

    Follow @butimalesbianpod on Spotify or Apple Podcasts and leave us a five star review.
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    1 hr and 21 mins