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Why Gender Matters

What Parents and Teachers Need to Know About the Emerging Science of Sex Differences
Narrated by: Keith Sellon-Wright
Length: 10 hrs and 29 mins
4.5 out of 5 stars (9 ratings)
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Publisher's Summary

A revised and updated edition (with more than 70% new material) of the classic book about innate differences between boys and girls and how best to parent and teach girls and boys successfully, with new chapters on sexual orientation and on transgender and intersex kids.

Back in 2005, the first edition of Why Gender Matters broke ground in illuminating the differences between boys and girls—how they perceive the world differently, how they learn differently, how they process emotions and take risks differently. Dr. Sax argued that in failing to recognize these hardwired differences between boys and girls, we ended up reinforcing damaging stereotypes, medicalizing misbehavior, and failing to help kids to reach their full potential. In the intervening decade, the world has changed, with an avalanche of new research which supports, deepens, and expands Dr. Sax's work. This revised and updated edition includes new findings about how boys and girls interact differently with social media and video games; a new discussion of research on gender non-conforming, LGB, and transgender kids, new findings about how girls and boys see differently, hear differently, and even smell differently; and new material about the medicalization of misbehavior.

©2017 Blackstone Audio, Inc. (P)2017 Leonard Sax

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Clear, Concise. Fascinating.

Why Gender Matters is an excellent example of a book that covers a complex topic in a simplified way to make it engaging all the way through. Points are presented in a very easy to follow manner with a great mix of empirical evidence and real world examples. Narration is also very good.

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Intuitively true

Everything said rings true for anyone who's spent a second with people of either gender.

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  • stacy lindsey
  • 04-10-2017

Great and unexpected

I was really surprised by some of the things explained in this book. Some parts were joyously enlightening, while other parts made me uncomfortable because they challenged what I though I knew. I would highly recommend this book to any human, not just parents and teachers.

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  • 0rton
  • 19-02-2019

Engaging conveyance of technical information

Although I was a bit squeamish with the explicit nature of some of the subject matter, and dubious of the necessity of the "storytelling" format of his case studies, this book sheds some much-needed light on the quickly eroding domain of society wisdom in gender. I eventually found the detailed accounts of his case studies engaging and felt they provided a much-need humanization of those folks struggling to find a fit for themselves in modern society, while at the same time being bluntly honest about the detrimental effects of cultural fads in this area of study. Although I think this is difficult subject matter for anyone to deal with, it's a necessary read for anyone concerned about the health and welfare of children and young adults.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 15-10-2018

Must read for any psychologist

Leonard Sax provides a very clear and identifiable link between biology and gender, and at the same time providing information to prepare children for future challenges in their lives, it will help parents, teachers, psychologists and other fields.

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  • Lune Xionshiski, Miccioh
  • 26-08-2018

very insightful and informative

As the oldest of 6, arming the household with the knowledge and skills required to maintain a cooperative and productive effort is paramount in securing the future and everyone's sanity. Dr. Sax's book details the importance of gender in youth, the nuances, and of course why it matters. I was recommended this book while researching what i could do to better alleviate the burden of childcare and upbringing within the household. Hoping to one day care for a family of my own, the material therein is a must read.

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  • Tim Haifley
  • 18-06-2018

great book

this is a fascinating book containing facts of relevance referencing the similar to Dan differences amongst the genders the human race.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 07-02-2018

Really Powerful Insights

I really liked this book.. I think it is indispensable for parents and teachers. Although it is clear that the writer leans right I think he does an AMAZING job of giving a balanced view backed by science and for me it was truly enlightening. There is information in this book that I never heard before and I don't think I would be likely to hear elsewhere. Worth it!

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 11-03-2019

Not for former victims of bullies

This book makes many good points until it gets to the chapter about nerdy boys. Apparently, the solution to stop quiet intelligent boys from being bullied isn’t doing something about the bullies’ behavior, but rather to force the nerdy boy to play sports and join the bullies.

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  • Jamaal Long
  • 04-11-2018

More empirical evidence

The author relied, I believe, too heavily on anecdotes. Examples should include specific research cases.

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  • AMAZON007
  • 27-02-2018

Not impressed

Verbose, repetitive and shallow; it also presents minimal research. The author plugs in his other work way too many times. It's an OK book but not worth the time and money investment. The author's point could've been made just as well in a magazine article.

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  • Allan
  • 20-09-2018

Interesting and factual look at gender differences

I really enjoyed this book and having both a son and daughter think I will slightly change a few of my parenting methods to suit their differences. Whether it was about computer games, studying or being a lady or gentleman I found it to all be relevant for today's challenges for children.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 17-08-2018

Excellent Listen

A concise, yet informative listen on a potentially divisive subject. A refreshingly balanced view of the topic, which left me eager for further study and reflection. Highly recommend.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 31-07-2018

absolutely must listen

Actually someone with some expierience making some sense. Good thing for parents specially with this absurd things you hear from TV and idiots around.