I love lesbian sex. I love talking about sex. I love mentally undressing the sexy women in my life. I love planning what I'm going to do when my partner gets home.

I love having sex, curling my hand inside my partner and feeling the intensity of her pleasure. I love her hand curled inside me, the experience of utterly losing control. I love it all.

Outside of actual fucking, my favorite kinky activity is reading erotic stories.

I love crawling inside another person's imagination. What hot situation will she dream up? Who are the characters, where in the story will they come together, and what will they do once they get there?

I'm a voyeur. By reading erotica I get to watch hot women having sex. Sometimes an erotic story presents me with new ideas, and sometimes an erotic stories causes me to revisit an erotic scenario or activity I hadn't entertained recently. You might say that reading erotica keeps me fresh.

No surprise, since I am a founding publisher of Cleis Press, which has published thousands of them. As a sex educator and sex coach, I deploy erotica as the secret tool for women who feel stuck or emptied of desire. Read sex stories, indulge your fetish, get your kink on, discover your heat, I say.