Uncultured cover art

Uncultured

A Memoir

Preview
Try Standard free
Select 1 audiobook a month from our entire collection.
Listen to your selected audiobooks as long as you're a member.
Get unlimited access to bingeable podcasts.
Auto-renews at $8.99/mo after 30 days. Cancel anytime.

Uncultured

By: Daniella Mestyanek Young
Narrated by: Daniella Mestyanek Young
Try Standard free

Auto-renews at $8.99/mo after 30 days. Cancel anytime.

Buy Now for $26.99

Buy Now for $26.99

About this listen

"It’s a dark story that forced me to think more expansively about what constitutes a cult." The New York Times' Ernesto Londoño

"Although this is Mestyanek Young’s first time narrating, listeners will appreciate hearing this deeply personal story told by the author herself. Share with fans of Tara Westover’s Educated and Deborah Feldman’s Unorthodox. Memoir readers will want to check this one out."
Library Journal

"A painful and propulsive memoir delivered in the honest tones of a woman who didn’t always think she’d live to tell her story." —The New York Times


This program is read by the author.


In the vein of Educated and The Glass Castle, Daniella Mestyanek Young's Uncultured is more than a memoir about an exceptional upbringing, but about a woman who, no matter the lack of tools given to her, is determined to overcome.


Behind the tall, foreboding gates of a commune in Brazil, Daniella Mestyanek Young was raised in the religious cult The Children of God, also known as The Family, as the daughter of high-ranking members. Her great-grandmother donated land for one of The Family’s first communes in Texas. Her mother, at thirteen, was forced to marry the leader and served as his secretary for many years. Beholden to The Family’s strict rules, Daniella suffers physical, emotional, and sexual abusemasked as godly discipline and divine loveand is forbidden from getting a traditional education.

At fifteen years old, fed up with The Family and determined to build a better and freer life for herself, Daniella escapes to Texas. There, she bravely enrolls herself in high school and excels, later graduating as valedictorian of her college class, then electing to join the military to begin a career as an intelligence officer, where she believes she will finally belong.

But she soon learns that her new worldsurrounded by men on the sands of Afghanistanlooks remarkably similar to the one she desperately tried to leave behind.

Told in a beautiful, propulsive voice and with clear-eyed honesty, Uncultured explores the dangers unleashed when harmful group mentality goes unrecognized, and is emblematic of the many ways women have to contort themselves to survive.

A Macmillan Audio production from St. Martin’s Press.

Abuse Relationships Religious Studies Sexual Abuse & Harassment Women
All stars
Most relevant
An incredible book written and narrated by a resilient, resourceful woman.
This story should be read by everyone, everywhere.
I am buying the book for all in my family this Xmas.

A stunning read!

Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.

Listening to Daniella read this story was so moving. So brave, I can't believe she didn't cry. i did it for her.

wow. what a childhood , what a life!!

Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.

I was left in awh after listening to your story! I must admit I had to put it down in some spots because I could feel your pain through your words… it takes an incredible writer to portray such emotions in their stories. Thank you for sharing! Such an amazing read and many lessons to be learned from resilience to the need to be apart of something bigger then ourselves. Thanks again!

CHILLS!!!

Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.

Daniella's story is one of courage, compassion, candour and hope. I am in awe of how she surmounted the repressive abusive regime of the Family and prevailed in male dominated culture of the Army. I recommend this book to all who occupy positions of authority and or trust to appreciate the gift Daniella has us by sharing her story and to learn how we can support and nurture those around us to be truly free.

Outstanding

Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.

found this hard to leave alone, was very interesting and I will be listening to again!

Gripping

Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.

See more reviews
In the spirit of reconciliation, Audible acknowledges the Traditional Custodians of country throughout Australia and their connections to land, sea and community. We pay our respect to their elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples today.