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If you want to find out whether your mind is being controlled by a narcissist, then keep reading...

Narcissists are puppeteers aiming to turn you into a loyal and submissive pet. They present themselves as charming and caring people at first, but by the time they have secured you, their mask falls apart, and you get to see what was hiding behind. After some time, your self-esteem is drained; you would like to run, but you feel helpless at the same time. After being so viciously exploited by a person who seemed to really care about you, how could you ever trust again? Or maybe you just feel so deprived of your value that even if you know you’re not happy, you can’t imagine a life without your narcissist: That’s the foundation of codependency.

In this audiobook, you will discover:

  • The narcissists’ Achilles heel: science-based techniques to reverse engineer narcissists and hit them where it hurts the most.
  • How to get over post-breakup stress disorder and trust again after being the victim of a narcissist.
  • The sneaky ways your narcissistic partner tricks you into thinking they really cares about you.
  • Why some people are attracted to narcissists like a magnet and how to break this toxic cycle.
  • Will a narcissist ever really change for love?
  • Why narcissists cheat so much, yours included.
  • How narcissists manipulate your vision of the world into thinking that you need them.
  • And much more...

This audiobook is a formula that consists of the best approaches that I’ve studied, experimented with, and successfully taught over the course of eight years, so even if you're an HSP or an Empath with no clue of how to interpret people's behavior, you will be able to recognize narcissists quickly and reliably, build impregnable boundaries, put an end to codependency, and take your life back.

©2019 Avery Hayes (P)2019 Avery Hayes

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  • Robert Keller
  • 16-09-2019

Very interesting tips

Amazing tips, pleasurable narration. I'm a highly sensitive person, and this audiobook is exactly what I was looking for. The author seems to be very knowledgeable, no fluff in here. 100% recommended!

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  • Donald Wiles
  • 16-09-2019

Pretty good, can’t complain

Probably not the best audiobook dealing with narcissistic abuse, but it was pretty good. If you're approaching the subject and never read or listened to anything of the kind before, it will provide you with a useful basic knowledge

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  • DebCat
  • 28-02-2021

Helpful and Revealing

This book has been eye-opening for me. I failed to see my selection in men as maintaining the dynamics established with my narcissistic father. What an epiphany! The book gave me some tools and warning flags that might seem obvious to many but never were for me.
The narrator has a slight speech impediment in that she has difficulty pronouncing “t” sounds. It was a little distracting for me, but others might not notice it at all.

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  • elaine
  • 06-06-2020

learned so much

I knew I was in a dysfunctional relationship with a man that made me feel like I was going crazy. This book describes him exactly and, me as well. I now know I need to stop living for him and, save myself and my sanity.
This book feels like it was written about me. It made me feel less alone.

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  • Donald Atkinson
  • 16-09-2019

Feels like having a superpower

After listening to this audiobook I felt like I had kind of a new "superpower", the ability to read the mind of toxic narcissists, to know what they're up to. It was a good sensation, and I'm sure it will be useful both in my personal and professional life

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  • Donald Cotton
  • 16-09-2019

I liked it a lot

As a survivor of multiple codependent relationships with a narcissist partner, what I can say is that I wish I had listened to this audiobook before. If you think you're currently struggling with something similar, or if you just feel like you're "too good" and have problems saying no to people, I think you'll like it a lot

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  • Matthew Davis
  • 16-09-2019

Good

An audiobook that does its job. The quality of narration could have been a bit more refined, but it's not a big deal. Content is very good, but supported by a writing that is not at the same level. Enjoyable overall

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  • Edward Bryan
  • 15-09-2019

Not a magic pill, but helpful

Here you'll find 21 different ways the narcissist will try to take advantage of you, from gaslighting to emotional manipulation. This is not a magic pill and you should seek the help of a professional, but it's is helpful anyway and will be healthy for your self esteem. Valuable content!

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  • Michael Knotts
  • 15-09-2019

Fundamental skills to deal with narcissists

This audiobook will give you the basic skillset to deal with narcissists while building healthy boundaries. Since we are talking about human relationships, we are social animals, and narcissists are pretty much everywhere nowadays, I feel like recommending this audiobook to everyone, especially if you've never seriously approached this subject before. You really need to learn how to become invulnerable to the narcissist's sneaky tricks.

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  • Nathaniel Duncan
  • 15-09-2019

A little treasure

This audiobook is a little treasure, it's rare to find such an amount of valuable information packed in a little more than three hours. Thank you to the author, and to the narrator as well who did quite a good job

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  • L watson
  • 16-09-2019

Very helpful Book!

This has been one of the best books on this topic I have come across and I have been researching Narcism for a few years now. Highly recommend reading it.

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