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The Rational Male is a rational and pragmatic approach to intergender dynamics and the social and psychological underpinnings of intergender relations. The book is the compiled, 10-year core writing of author/blogger Rollo Tomassi from therationalmale.com.

Rollo Tomassi is one of the leading voices in the globally growing, male-focused online consortium known as the "Manosphere". Outlined are the concepts of positive masculinity, the feminine imperative, plate theory, operative social conventions, and the core psychological theory behind game awareness and "red pill" ideology. Tomassi explains and outlines the principles of intergender social dynamics and foundational reasoning behind them.

©2013 George W. Miller (P)2016 George W. Miller

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excellent

really enjoyed it, fresh perspective and insightful. well-written and enjoyable, very exciting writing from Rollo!

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Amazing book for men !

I wish i had this book 10-20 years ago, boy... I was really clueless. While being into learning more about interacting with females fot the past years, this book is a great way to understand why "bad boys" are a magnet for girls , the concept of abundance, the dynamics of relationships etc. Thank you Rollo !

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  • Don
  • 10-02-2018

Listened to this entire book overnight - riveting

Must read prior to marriage and dating women. Completely demystifies why many women cheat with bad alpha types and marry nice guys or use them shamelessly as placeholders and why many women have no remorse in dumping a nice guy who invested all his time and recources thinking authentic sex and affection can be bargained for with a woman. Why women can become completely unreasonable/heartless and how the governments and courts have become completely gynocentric and support injustice towarda men

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Must read for all men

The truth can be difficult to digest, but is necessary. A must read for ALL men.

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Becoming an alpha male

Some points were repeated in the book several times. Some very controversial points if view.

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Don't buy this if you're not open minded.

First off, there are some good points in here. I wouldn't call them facts, but for the sake of gender based debates they provide interesting arguments and I'd agree with a lot of the points to a degree.

However based on the language and concepts, I'd say the book/this guy's whole deal takes advantage of the "betas". The whole philosophy of it seems to mainly apply to guys who have trouble with girls/relationships and it picks on their insecurities - providing the "solution". Afterall, that would be the majority market for this kind of stuff.

Nothing wrong with that, but I just think the target audience is a vulnerable one. Guys buy into the whole - "I have to be an alpha shit" pretty easily without even considering that behaviour is exactly the opposite of how an "alpha" should act.

Overall there's many flaws in the arguments and it makes a bit of a joke of science at some points and you probably won't be too impressed with the author. BUT equally it's worth a read for men and women regardless of political views and relationships - assuming you aren't quick to join or oppose the opinions.

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Unplug your life!

The bible for the modern man.
Take the red pill and never look back!
Thank you Richard Cooper (Entrepreneurs In Cars).

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It's all so obvious now...

Couldn't stop listening, light bulbs illuminating throughout the entire book...

I've studied "game" since "the game" came out but it has never totally clicked until after this book, I have one divorce under my belt and I'm glad I had a clean break with no attachment. I don't wish I'd gotten this book prior to my marriage but I'm glad I got out of it at 30 where I am finally mature enough to see the world for what it is. Every guy over 15 should have this book and never stop reading/listening to it as the world has a way of comforting you with lies.

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Good stuff

If this wasn't a god dam audiobook I'd probably share it with my mates. 10/10 would read again.

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Would recommend

Great concepts that make you rethink about how you should carry yourself, especially when around women.
Very interesting read. Would recommend.

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  • 18-10-2016

Highly, highly recommend!

This book describes and helps you understand the sociological and psychological reason behind much of what is embedded in our culture in terms of masculinity and feminism.

I am a 22 year old male, in shape, single, and on a successful path in life, therefore I thought I was a prize to women but for some reason, the most of the women I was trying to get with "didn't see it" or I was (in my head) "too mature for they're linear cognitive functioning for our age". There are a few things I was completely missing. Half way through the book I felt my actions changing, mindset changing, and sure enough I have had positive results (I'll save the dirty details). I believe the main reason was that this book gave me the edge of confidence and slight change in mindset that I needed to make it work better for me.

I lacked the understanding of how women worked psychologically, and based my "game" off of the wrong concepts to appeal to women. I already had most of the characteristics necessary to appeal to women, however this book allowed me to do some necessary fine tuning to my 'game'. This book will make you look back and realize where you went wrong in past relations, and why women make the decisions they do, and take the actions they do; even if it seems it makes no since on a functional level.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 20-05-2016

Must read for any man

A must read for any man whether single, divorced, or married. Learn the reasoning behind masculinity being viewed as negative, and how to combat this social dilemma.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 01-09-2017

Every man MUST read this book, several times over.

What did you love best about The Rational Male?

It helped me realize, why as a man I have suffered so much in my life. It was nothing I was doing, I was following all the advice women gave, all the ideas you see in movies, music, I thought women wanted a man who was caring and affectionate, this book helped me realize.. That all my suffering was due from the identification with feminist ideals. The line:A Man's love is unconditional and loves simply for love, a woman's love on the other hand is opportunistic, there's a condition to receiving it. Cut me like a knife....

What did you like best about this story?

The analogy with the matrix, first made me laugh and then question the validity of this book. But as Rollo continues explaining throughout the book and referencing the similarities, that laughter soon turned into a complex set of a emotions that I cannot describe, you realize.. It's true.. We men have been made victims and no one will believe you because, they're part of the system, and just like the matrix, they will fight to preserve it..

What did you learn from The Rational Male that you would use in your daily life?

Once you know this truth.... You cannot go back. You cannot look at women the same and you realize, just how fucked up it is that your needs as a man,were never important to the world, yet your accomplishments is what everyone will relish in..

Any additional comments?

Thank you for this insight..... Thank you for unplugging me from this matrix..

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  • CapitalStep
  • 14-03-2018

could be better

speed 1.15 otherwise it's slow as hell. chapter 3 about 27 and a half minutes into the chapter I can hear double voices as if one part was taped over the other which has a result of me absorbing neither. please fix this.

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  • Phillip
  • 20-10-2016

This should be required for all males to read

This book should be a required read for all boys/men to graduate high school. Mind blowing truth is spoken in this book.

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  • frank
  • 28-04-2016

Good shit

A little too conspiratorial but he makes good points. I think he tries to make sense of many unconscious behaviors displayed. by women but at the same time can be argued in multiple ways

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  • Alex Younger
  • 18-09-2016

Will change your life

This book is terribly organized but it is the best book on the market on the topic of understanding women

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  • Thor
  • 29-07-2016

Essential to understand love and women

I'd recommend the written version since the narrator doesn't do the book justice, but every male should buy both.

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  • Ben
  • 26-04-2016

Rollo is the king

Incredible. You're hilarious and you empowered the shit out of me. Pretty new to RedPill but would love to talk sometime. You should put Preventative Medicine on Audible as well - would love to hear more from you boss!

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  • Anonymous User
  • 10-04-2018

Clear display of much needed concepts

This makes it easier to understand the much needed concepts of dating and behaviors needed to maintain a positive attitude towards relationships and avoiding the pitfalls that lead to depression because of entering relationships without the necessary skills needed for overall health including mentally.

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  • Chris Carroll
  • 10-05-2018

Say “yes” now to speak to sales.

I really can’t get on with this book, it isn’t the author it’s the narrator. He sounds like an a computer generated voice with no emotion, monotone, delivered all at the same speed. It makes this book really hard to listen to. This was my first book on audible and I hope there not all like this

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  • UrbanSmash
  • 02-09-2017

Required Reading for All Males

This should be a standard and basic text for all males who are conscious, aware and awoke to the modern day gender dynamics. I have friends coming up to me asking why I'm so good with women. I refer them to this text as a starting point. A pleasure to listen to in audiobook format. Share with your dad, son, best man and become the fully realised and actualised men you were intended to be.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 20-02-2017

Every man must read this

This is truly an indispensable book for every man to read. Getting involved with someone in a relationship can have life changing implications for the better or for the worse. The knowledge in this book can help men to avoid many of the pitfalls that can befall the unsuspecting man

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  • Anonymous User
  • 13-08-2018

Interesting point of view

Very easy listen. Helps to understand female behaviour. Would recommend to all young men. Great introduction to MGTOW.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 28-07-2018

must read for every male

Will change you for the better even if you hate the truth dropped at first.

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  • The Amz Reviewer
  • 09-07-2018

Superb. next level material

If you've read the game, this is the missing or next level approach dealing with your mental state and mindset.
I read the game years ago and I between learny the things in this book but it took me years to figure it out. I wish I had this book years ago for the knowledge I had gained through life experience could well have been executed and accelerated a whole lot earlier.
I only found out about rollo from twitter and am truly thankful for such an enlightened listen. I look forward to listening to his sequels.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 18-06-2018

Red Pill butt kicker

I have listened to not only a thought provoking audiobook but one that challenges my deep seated concepts of masculinity, 11/10

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  • orlando reid
  • 06-04-2018

outstanding

This has helped me so much. i have this on rotation of audiobooks.

Thank the author for pointing out things I already knew but was too afraid to admit to myself.

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  • AA
  • 01-04-2018

Life-changing

The Red Pill was delicious to swallow!

This book crystallises many of my thoughts of the last few years as well as throwing light on some issues I’d never considered. Easily accessible and logical - I would recommend this book to anyone.

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  • Onewave
  • 03-03-2018

rambling

some good info here which can be found elsewhere. unfortunately written in very long rambling sentences. hard to follow in audio version. overall: not as good as it's made out to be