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  • How Men Can Embrace Vulnerability, Create Strong Relationships, and Live Their Fullest Lives
  • By: Lewis Howes
  • Narrated by: Lewis Howes
  • Length: 6 hrs and 42 mins
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (165 ratings)

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Standing between you and the man you can be is one thing: The Mask of Masculinity.

Lewis Howes grew up as an athlete. He was a two-sport All-American, played almost every sport in high school, and went on to play football professionally. Howes then transferred his competitive nature from sports to business, building his podcast, The School of Greatness, into a global phenomenon and becoming successful beyond his wildest dreams. But his whole identity was built on misguided beliefs about what "masculinity" was: dangerous, false ideas learned from teammates and coaches in locker rooms and stereotypes in the media. Like so many men, Howes grew up to be angry, frustrated, and always chasing something that was never enough.

At 30 years old, outwardly thriving but unfulfilled inside, Howes began a personal journey to find inner peace and to uncover the many masks that men - young and old - wear: by asking for advice from some of the world's best psychologists, doctors, and household names like Tony Robbins, Alanis Morissette, and Ray Lewis. That journey created this book - a must-listen for every man, and for every woman who loves a man.

In The Mask of Masculinity, Howes exposes the ultimate emptiness of the Material Mask, the man who chases wealth above all things; the cowering vulnerability that hides behind the Joker and Stoic Masks of men who never show real emotion; and the destructiveness of the Invincible and Aggressive Masks worn by men who take insane risks or can never back down from a fight.

He teaches men how to break through the walls that hold them back and shows women how they can better understand the men in their lives. It's not easy, but if you want to love, be loved, and live a great life, then it's an odyssey of self-discovery that all modern men must make.

©2017 Lewis Howes (P)2017 Lewis Howes

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Thank you lewis

Thank you Lewis for sharing this book. It has been a eye opener to a few personal issues that I have been denying and now am working through

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Best book

One of the best books I have read in my life, no doubt about it

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absolutely loved this

I have recommended this book to so many people - it is unreal! so much truth and understanding.

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refreshing

Love every chapter going to apply it in my life
it's time to rise from the negative and turn it into positive:)

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Not bad, not bad

This book has a good message, in its essence- vulnerability is courage. If you like this book
I would recommend Brene Browns The Power of Vulnerability which is amazinggggg. It goes over and beyond what is covered in this book.

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Awareness is key to change

Lewis touches on a topic that's becoming more and more important in society. Breaking it into easy to relate chapters (masks) with practical hints and real life examples, this book is a read for all who are looking to bring balance and awareness to the masculinity conversation and help create change.

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Great book

Was really happy with this book found it really well done I feel would suit any listener at any level of ones own awereness
Great read thank you :)

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A book all men should read

Such an insightful book. Taught me so much about what it means to be a man. It will no doubt help others who are exposed to toxic masculinity.

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Every man needs to check this out!

we see these masks everywhere..
the intention is to protect. the reality tho is isolation and disconnect.

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Worth every man's time!

Fantastic book for every man to read and take note of.

Lewis is a great narrator and makes it very personal

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