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The House of My Mother

A Daughter's Quest for Freedom

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The House of My Mother

By: Shari Franke
Narrated by: Shari Franke
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From eldest daughter Shari Franke, the shocking true story behind the viral 8 Passengers family vlog – now the subject of a new Disney+ docuseries – and the hidden abuse she suffered at the hands of her mother, and how, in the face of unimaginable pain, she found freedom and healing.

Shari Franke’s childhood was a constant battle for survival. Her mother, Ruby Franke, enforced a severe moral code while maintaining a façade of a picture-perfect family for their wildly popular YouTube channel 8 Passengers, which documented the day-to-day life of raising six children for a staggering 2.5 million subscribers. But a darker truth lurked beneath the surface – Ruby’s wholesome online persona masked a more tyrannical parenting style than anyone could have imagined.

As the family’s YouTube notoriety grew, so too did Ruby’s delusions of righteousness. Fueled by the sadistic influence of relationship coach Jodi Hildebrandt, together they implemented an inhumane and merciless disciplinary regime.

Ruby and Jodi were arrested in Utah in 2023 on multiple charges of aggravated child abuse. On that fateful day, Shari shared a photo online of a police car outside their home. Her caption had one word: 'Finally'.

For the first time, Shari will reveal the disturbing truth behind 8 Passengers and her family’s devastating involvement with Jodi Hildebrandt’s cultish life coaching program, 'ConneXions'. No stone is left unturned as Shari exposes the perils of influencer culture and shares for the first time her battle for truth and survival in the face of her mother’s cruelty.

©2025 Shari Franke (P)2025 Simon & Schuster UK
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Shari, thankyou for sharing your words and memories. I cried listening to your poignant recounts. Such bravery and determination to be oneself and take on the role of breaking down family trauma and setting new pathways towards light and love. I pray your life moving forward will be one of peace and may scripture continue to be your guide. How insightful to see you allow your siblings stories to be shielded yet make space for their mind and bodies to heal. God bless you.

Reshaping trauma and creating new positive pathways for herself and her siblings. Admirable!

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Absolutely heartbreaking. You’re so strong beyond words Shari.. thank you for sharing your story. I wish you all peace and the best for the future.

Thank you Shari

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Listened to it in one sitting. Thank you for sharing your story. Brave and honest!

Brave

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Shari Franke has ripped her heart out and written a heart breaking yet eye opening book about a terrifying chapter in her life that we hopefully will all hold onto for our future and present children. No mother, father, outside adult or close adult should have the power to exploit a child through the internet or social media. My prayers of healing & love are always with this family.

The most respectable author

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Very brave to speak up about her life and experiences. It bought to light many things that need to change in this world. Despite how hard it was to hear her story, it was sensationally written and exposed the truth behind the monster that is social media and Ruby Franke.

Phenomenal

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A fascinating look into what happened with the Franke family. A very honest and brave telling of the story. Very well written.

So interesting

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Unbelievable to listen to. How a seemingly normal family was destroyed by wanted fame and then destructive cult like influence and violence

Jaw dropping

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as someone who followed 8 passengers, it has broken my heart to hear the back story behind what has really been going on. thank you for your bravery in sharing your story.

heartbroken

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Shari really dives deep into the thought process of a child being brought up in a house full of abuse in the name of religion. Her story really struck me as similar to my own experiences but is worded so thoughtfully and powerfully it helped give words to my own experiences while I learned about hers.
Thank you Shari for sharing your story in such a way that encourages self reflection as well as bringing awareness to the impact harsh and punitive parenting can have as well as how it is often just abuse in disguise.

Amazing story of resilience

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Finished in a day. Such a meaningful insight to the experiences of the writer and her journey towards healing and finding herself as a survivor.

Heartfelt

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