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  • The End of Gender

  • Debunking the Myths About Sex and Identity in Our Society
  • By: Debra Soh
  • Narrated by: Debra Soh
  • Length: 7 hrs and 38 mins
  • Categories: LGBT, LGBT Studies
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (47 ratings)

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International sex researcher, neuroscientist, and columnist Debra Soh debunks popular gender myths in this fascinating, research-based, scientific examination of the many facets of gender identity.

Is our gender something we’re born with, or are we conditioned by society? In The End of Gender, neuroscientist and sexologist Dr. Debra Soh uses a research-based approach to address this hot-button topic, unmasking popular misconceptions about the nature vs. nurture debate and exploring what it means to be a woman or a man in today’s society. 

Both scientific and objective and drawing on original research and carefully conducted interviews, Soh tackles a wide range of issues, such as gender-neutral parenting, gender dysphoric children, and and the neuroscience of being transgender. She debates today’s accepted notion that gender is a social construct and a spectrum and challenges the idea that there is no difference between how male and female brains operate. 

The End of Gender is a conversation-starting work that will challenge what you thought you knew about gender, identity, and everything in between. Timely, informative, and provocative, it will arm you with the facts you need to come to your own conclusions about gender identity and its place in the world today.

©2020 Dr. Debra Soh. All rights reserved. (P)2020 Simon & Schuster, Inc. All rights reserved.

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A much needed scientific voice in an ideological crisis

As an educator I am surrounded by new trends and ‘research’ in gender and care for students. There were many questions and insights that didn’t make sense to me, but Debora helps provide a scientific and level approach that helped me support students and their needs while also advocating truth.

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Food for the rational

A well researched book, full of love for diversity without sacrificing reason. Must read for a compassionate application and contribution of science on a topic that has become an issue for so many.

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Took a long time and still not finished... sigh

Listening to this book is like listening to nails lightly scrape down a chalk board. A bit harsh of a comment, maybe. However, it was really difficult to get through. One moment the author is appears to be against a group the next the author is for that group... it’s as if the author had difficulty reconciling their beliefs and personal commitments to those known to them. I felt that many of the author’s thoughts were justified by the authors education by consensus. This really was a bit of a waste of time it was like reading the internet / New York Times and watching CNN. Sorry.

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Very informative and interesting

Very well written and researched. Voice provided by Dr Soh is clear. Will be listening again. Looking forward to further books.

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Excellent- science rocks

Excellent, informative, scientific, balanced, not hateful or cruel but also, not bogus. Just right; like the temperature of the baby bear’s porridge. Points out the logical reasoning flaws of some activists arguments, but also, points out that historically ‘outlier’ people have been poorly treated. Just because something is not biological doesn’t mean we should be mean or not treat people fairly. I Particularly like the highlighting of the difference between arts theory and scientific theory. Science theories start as a hypothesis, then an experiment (preferably validly constructed) and ends with a theory to explain the results. Arts theories are more: “I reckon that blah blah blah..... and I will back up this theory of mine by referencing Dr Me (my own book, written last year) as well as the book I wrote in ‘96, and ‘84 and that bloke Dr Lucky Fields..”

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  • 05-08-2020

More balanced than I had anticipated

At first glance, I thought this book might be a right-wing tirade about gender norms and the transgender community. However, this book presented a balanced and data-driven view of issues relating to gender identity and sexuality. I was pleasantly surprised by the author’s acknowledgement of the realities faced by the transgender community while also combating common misinformation often found among trans activists, especially as it relates to gender dysmorphia in children. The author also does a pretty good job narrating, much better than many other authors who narrate their own books.

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  • Robert K.
  • 08-08-2020

stirring a conversation that is lacking

clearly stated points, interesting read. written with humility and professional attitude towards this problem. I hope it will get attention it deserves

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  • Doll face
  • 13-08-2020

Biased Scientific research

I’m between this book and Stephen Hawkings “the brief history of time.” I point that out because the latter book is written to such a poignant scientific degree, it can contrast any other scientific research as real or faux. Just by way of grammar usage and structure that conclude hypothesis. I’d like to say that this book is an attempt to gaslight its readers by blurring the line between journalistic opinion and aggregated data in science research. I notice she misleads a lot by not structuring a clear line between opinion and hypothesis. She contradicts her introduction many times in book. She likes to use the words “facts” in science. But she’s actually stating data research that form a hypothesis and how these findings are not precise- otherwise gender abd section wouldn’t be so complex. I think she has resentment and festered trauma that becomes transparent to those who are real science lovers. The way she navigates and gaslights with how she delivers the dialogue can confuse the reader. Although she is pretty witty and charming in her low key insults to those who are ignorant to sexology, she is consumed by it. Having her sabots her reputation as not only a scientist, but now as a journalist. I believe she is too bias and needs to heal from her incapacity to really solve the mystery’s of gender and societies obsession with sex. And it’s understandable, she points out how gender has blurred into sex. And it is like being in the twilight zone. I think once she realizes that she’s more so angry that we have not evolved as a species in truly understanding sex and gender that she’s actually more upset with the cop out from the science community I also believe she advocates more so for gay or cis effeminate children than she does for actual trans children. I read half the book and just felt like I couldn’t take it anymore. It was too all over the place and needs to be revised to being authentically unbiased. I just couldn’t handle how she presented research and omitted variables that allowed the reader to assume what they could be, contaminating it.

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  • Cara M
  • 08-08-2020

Excellent and informative!

I am a transwoman who is having issues with the trans community ideology lately. I was starting to feel that things were getting a little too crazy. After reading this book, I know why I was feeling that way... Thank you Dr Soh!

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  • Loud Lemur from Latveria
  • 11-08-2020

One of the most important books of our time

Being a liberal and a parent with an appreciation for quantentative evidence right now is scary. In the face of the ongoing political movement to encourage children to transition at a young age or learn that gender disphoria is societally more advantageous than behaving typically as your sex (both typical male and female behaviors being stigmatized), most people are cowed into silence on this issue. Not Debra Soh. With a highly clinical and compassionate approach, she speaks volumes of truth she will sadly be attacked for by activists who won't read her book or the studies she sites.

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  • purplecrayon88
  • 26-08-2020

Useful at points, disappointing overall

Some useful definitions and data points, but generally disappointing. The style was too informal for the topic, and the studies were not sufficiently described to let the reader to form an independent opinion.

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  • Sabrina
  • 05-08-2020

Excellent book for understanding who we are.

Having heard Dr. Soh speak, I was eager to read this. What a refreshingly honest scientific description of a subject made so confusing by leftist activists in academia. Also extremely useful for understanding ourselves as humans. I hope society learns the lessons she’s teaching here.

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  • Dwayne Hawkins
  • 02-09-2020

Actual Science

Listened to this start to finish in one sitting. Good science & objective facts. Absolutely loved this book & recommend highly; especially to any naysayers.

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  • DrinkLotsOfWater
  • 12-10-2020

Must read

I’ve been confused by the trans movement, not understanding the issues and motivations, and afraid to ask. The book give excellent explanations of the terms and issues, with balanced and nuanced perspective. I’m overwhelmingly impressed by the courage, and knowledge of the author. I wish this book were required reading.

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  • Tomas P.
  • 11-10-2020

Absolute must read!

Brilliant, brave, honest, truth seeking. Amazing book which I wish was read by everyone with whom I ever discuss any gender / social justice warriors topics. Greatly narrated by the author.

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  • SarahY1301
  • 24-08-2020

An okay book.

Honestly, didn't love it. There was quite a bit of bias in this book which made me question whether the author was cherry-picking studies. However, if your new to learning about gender, transgenderism and the differences of sexes, then I do suggest this book as long as you go in with a critical mind. I was hoping for a more in-depth conversation discussing why more people are choosing to define themselves as gender non-conforming and the increase in transgender people. There was some discussion, but I guess I had really hoped for more so I felt like I had wasted my money a little as a lot of this, I already knew as it's been discussed so much. Also personal note to the author: please stop playing the victim. We get it, you're risking your life to publish your studies...or something. If it pains you so much, do something else. Also never acknowledge Ben Shapiro - that's quite literally stabbing yourself in the foot.

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  • Laveyheed
  • 17-09-2020

Finally!

I was beginning to think I was losing my mind these days. I thoroughly enjoyed this book. The author also gives measured responses and reiterates that this information is not for dismissing the transgender community. So anyone saying that this is just a baseless attack on transgender people, clearly hasn't read the book. A definite eye opener on what we allow to happen in society if we continue to not voice Opposing opinions.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 15-08-2020

Brilliant dissemination of the false logic of woke

Debra Dog does an excellent job of stating the scientific foundations of sex and gender, as well as the current research. She articulates thoroughly what you already feel is the case, and exposes the failures within academia and the moaist like behaviour of "keep your head down, in order to keep it" from the scientist who disagree that gender is binary. Great for both layman and people with prior knowledge of the topic.

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  • Stephen
  • 16-09-2020

insightful

this book was a honest, factual and genuinely a nice change of pace to what we see and hear.

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  • LanaLeigh
  • 19-08-2020

A MUST read, especially for parents!

this is not a political book, it simply states Scientific FACT which in the current climate of "wokeness" is a rarity! I commend the author for her bravery. This is a refreshing read as it is written by a Sexoligist (who has now moved out of the field feeling she can not tell lies in aid of political correctness) who is, for the most part a left leaning Liberal. this book does not have a political agenda. if there is an agenda at all it is that we must tread carefully when making life changung decisions for our children. apart from discussing the Trans/non binary movements it addresses relationships between heterosexual men and women and just how wrong we are getting it by denying sex differences! This book was informative, wonderfully written and very engaging. I sincerely hope the author continues to enlighten us with more!

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  • Anonymous User
  • 11-08-2020

Most Amazing

The most educational and scientific read in a long time. amazingly good and thoughtful. highly recommended

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  • WNeill
  • 08-09-2020

A great start in this debate

This was an excellent introduction to the debate. More reading is essential, but this book gives you the rudiments from the scientific point of view, not the nonesense the media feeds us

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  • hnbrgo
  • 06-09-2020

Separates Facts and Emotion

Debra Soh's quiet approach explains and clarifies the emotionally charged theme of gender vs biological sex. This book should be compulsory reading on all campuses.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 26-08-2020

Balanced and Compassionate But Also Science Led

This is a brilliant book, read by the author which I always think is best for non-fiction. This book gives an overview of the ideological capture of the sciences and scientists researching sex, sexuality and gender and the effect of trans ideology on the discussion around rights and treatment. Soh is always compassionate and considerate towards trans people during these discussions and never suggests that Trans people don't exist or that they should be able to transition or that they should not have all the rights everyone else has. She brings her background in Sexology to bear on the controversial subject of Trans and TERFs and clearly outlines the myths on both sides of the debate along with an overview of the scientific evidence. This is an important book to add to the debate and it is a shame that the Trans lobby have been attempting to discredit the author since she first started writing about these issues.

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  • euthyphro.
  • 28-08-2020

Evidence-based treatment of the gender debate

A sober and cogently argued discussion of the scientific evidence around gender. Shows you can be pro-equality and compassionate without buying into many of the claims in the gender debate.

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