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  • The Defining Decade

  • Why Your Twenties Matter and How to Make the Most of Them Now
  • By: Meg Jay
  • Narrated by: Meg Jay
  • Length: 5 hrs and 28 mins
  • 4.6 out of 5 stars (156 ratings)

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By: Meg Jay
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Publisher's Summary

Contemporary culture tells us the twentysomething years don't matter. Clinical psychologist Dr Meg Jay argues that this could not be further from the truth. In fact, your 20s are the most defining decade of adulthood.

The Defining Decade weaves the latest science of the twentysomething years with real-life stories to show us how work, relationships, personality, social networks, identity and even the brain can change more during this decade than at any other time in adulthood.

Smart, compassionate and constructive, The Defining Decade is a practical guide to making the most of the years we cannot afford to miss.

©2016 Meg Jay (P)2012 Hachette Audio

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Amazing

The advice was life affirming and direct, yet gentle and understanding. It felt tailor made to me, it addresses to many of my concerns about life. Incredibly engaging.

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Just what I needed to hear

Worthwhile. This book helped me realise that my 20s are so important. If you're a 20-something and you need some guidance, this book might be for you.

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Very much worth a read if you are in your 20s

Very much worth a read if you are in your 20s. Learnt alot from this one

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Scary but needed advice for your 20s

Scary but needed advice for your 20s. At 29 I felt like I should have listened to this earlier.

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It is exactly what I needed to hear

This is such an eye-opening book for anyone in their 20s. It made so much sense when the author spoke about building confidence, especially when you're new to the workforce and everyone around seems to be better than you.

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Therapy in Audiobook form

I have listened to this 3 times over the last 2 years, when I feel "stuck" or "lost" and there are tid-bits in the different chapters that really help.
I'm a very self aware person, so listening to these facts and theories helps me reframe where I am at, and then be able to think about moving forward.

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Most impactful book I have ever read

As a 23 year old male, I consider this book to be one of the most impactful books I have ever read.

It gives structure, insight and guidance during a stage of life that is incredibly uncertain and ill-defined but equally formative and important.

I think all ages would benefit from reading this book to understand the thoughts and choices required for '20 somethings'. More specifically, I would now consider this essential reading for anyone entering the 'defining decade'

I consider this essential reading for anyone entering the 'defining decade'. I do also strongly believe that all ages would benefit from reading this book, if they need to understand the thoughts and choices required for '20 somethings' today.

Thank you Meg Jay. I only wish I had come across this book sooner

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eye opening

Thoroughly enjoyed the content of this book. It also got me thinking and forced me to to take some action. Although, the narrator gets some getting used to.

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