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Discover the parenting secrets of the happiest people in the world.

What makes Denmark the happiest country in the world - and how do Danish parents raise happy, confident, successful kids year after year? This upbeat and practical guide reveals the six essential principles that have been working for parents in Denmark for decades:

  • Play: essential for development and well-being
  • Authenticity: fosters trust and an 'inner compass'
  • Reframing: helps kids cope with setbacks and look on the bright side
  • Empathy: allows us to act with kindness towards others
  • No ultimatums: no power struggles or resentment
  • Togetherness: a way to celebrate family time, on special occasions and every day

A revealing and fresh take on parenting advice, The Danish Way of Parenting will help parents from all walks of life raise the happiest, most well-adjusted kids in the world.

©2017 Jessica Joelle Alexander and Iben Dissing Sandahl (P)2017 Hachette Audio

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The perfect listen & incredibly insightful!

I’ve been listening to parenting books for a while now and this is by far the most relatable, achievable and comforting of books I’ve listened to in a while.

All the advice is completely relatable, doesn’t seem unrealistic for busy, over tired parents who want to be better and try new approaches and enjoy parenting even more.

Some points are ones we already have adopted in our home, some are new, and some are just reassuring that we’re on the right path!

A Fantastic Listen and one you don’t want to put down!

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Very satisfying listen

I really enjoyed this book. A whole bunch of factors, some I'd thought of and was great to have confirmed by the Danish, other factors I'd never thought of and was very pleased to be introduced to. Also nice to be done in 3.5hrs.

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  • Kat
  • 10-02-2021

gently pursuasive

I found this a helpful book, found the ideas interesting and a cause for reflection, it was gently pursuasive about some attitudes to parenting that seem to have a good basis.

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insightful

this book is really enjoyable and easy to listen to. the light mix of anecdotal stories and scientific research keep it both relatable and logically sound. i will read it again before my baby arrive.
while most of the method will be more applicable when kids are 1 year, it's a good read for any ages

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Interesting and brilliant

A must read for all parents. Simple and refreshing to read and very different to the British way of parenting.

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Loved this book from start to finish!

Content is truely interesting, and is coupled with an excellent narrator. Highly recommend! absolutely loved this book!

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this is unbelievable amazing

this book creates so much understanding in life and also in the way that we should parent and bring up our children for the future

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brilliant

I loved this book. Much of the content confimed we are on the right path with our parenting 'style' yet It was interesting to learn the science of why everyone should parent "The Danish Way." I hightly recommend this book!

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Short but good

Short but good. could have gone into more detail / been more a personal an account of discovering the Danish parenting path

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  • Francis Borgians
  • 11-04-2018

A must listen, to make parenting enjoyable.

I bought a printed copy of this book when I had my first son and never read it fully. He’s three years now and I enjoyed listening to this audio book. Everything in this book resonates so well with what we shouldn’t have done this last three years and I am happy that I’ve found these secrets to raising happy kids not very late. I highly recommend this and my sincere thanks to the authors and all who made it possible, including the Audible team 👍

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  • Anonymous User
  • 29-07-2020

Muy útil

Como madre siento que el libro es una guía muy práctica para recordarte consejos de crianza (qué también aplican a nosotros cómo adultos). Si todos ponemos nuestro grano de arena criando niños más felices, queridos y seguros serán adultos más felices, empatices y menos conflictivos y el mundo será un lugar mejor.

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  • Edith
  • 25-06-2018

Happier families

This book provide simple, effective, common sense steps that every family can apply to their lives immediately. It’s so easy to spend time doing chores and other activities that take us away from our kids. By involving our kids in more daily activities and spending quality fine with them without the need of electronics does make for happier kids.
I loved the idea of free play for our kids with their friends. It’s so easy to have them running from one sporting activity to their music class then back for drama class, but that time with her friends, I notice is when my daughter is happiest.

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  • CDean
  • 22-06-2018

Crystalizes what one intuitively knows is true

This (audio) book expresses and crystalizes factors that underpin the development of happy, confident and resilient kids (who grow up well-adjusted to be the same kind of adults). It brings to the forefront what we sometimes "intuitively know to be true" but yet cannot conceptualize it sufficiently to put it into words, actions or practice. Extremely helpful and for me, contains a number of "oh yea" (not necessarilly "ah ha") moments. Great listen and I will be embrace the practicalities of this approach with my two boys, eight and three.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 23-09-2018

Amazing book for parenting

Very much related my self to a lot written in this book. Very heartwarming and beautifully well written. Personally recommended it to many friends and family. Perfect for every parent.

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  • Lawrence Smith
  • 10-12-2019

A nice, easy read for busy parents

I really liked this audiobook as it wasn't judgemental or patronising and it gave some really good tips for parents or people working with young people. I usually listen to fiction audiobooks so this was a nice change.

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  • John G.
  • 30-10-2019

rarely illuminating, simplistic

rarely-illuminating, simplistic, nothing new, essential research-based ...would love to hear a version for UK teachers

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  • Tim
  • 08-02-2019

Interesting perspective on parenting

Lots of useful hints and tips for parenting. It's good to learn about how the Danes approach parenthood.

I found myself having to take things with large grains of salt. Sweeping generalisations would benefit from being specified as opinion versus fact.

It's also a shame that the book is written as though the reader is American, I found this quite alienating at times, especially the over use of "we" and "us" in regards to US culture.

Definitely worth a listen, but don't treat as gospel.

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  • attila csaji
  • 22-12-2017

eye opening. nicely written and red. great ideas

eye opening. nicely written and red. great ideas. good for nee parents who need help in deciding how to raise good children

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  • Katie Simcock
  • 28-04-2018

NOT JUST A PARENTING BOOK!

I listened to this book very quickly. it's very interesting and I will be sure to listen again. some helpful and constructive ways to be a better parent to build respectful relationships as a family and also some tips and ideas on how to be a better and happier person generally.

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  • Sarah Danaher
  • 02-01-2018

Short but interesting

Interesting insight into a mentally healthier culture and way of life. I liked the succinctness. Makes the key lessons more memorable. A simple recipe that fits in with the calmer easier happier parenting philosophy!

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  • Ellie K.
  • 12-05-2021

Easy read/listen, great parenting tips

Great parenting tips: I resonated with this parenting style. It seems like the authors are addressing to an (white) American audience but the tips are useful to all, regardless of background. I liked the tips, but I didn't like hearing the comparisons to American parenting styles all the time.

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