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The Dance of Anger
- A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships
- Narrated by: Barbara Caruso
- Length: 6 hrs and 50 mins
- Categories: Relationships, Parenting & Personal Development, Personal Development
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Publisher's Summary
Anger is something we feel. It exists for a reason and always deserves our respect and attention. We all have a right to everything we feel - and certainly our anger is no exception.
"Anger is a signal and one worth listening to," writes Dr. Harriet Lerner in her renowned classic that has transformed the lives of millions. While anger deserves our attention and respect, women still learn to silence our anger, to deny it entirely, or to vent it in a way that leaves us feeling helpless and powerless. In this engaging and eminently wise book, Dr. Lerner teaches both women and men to identify the true sources of anger and to use it as a powerful vehicle for creating lasting change.
For decades this book has helped millions of listeners learn how to turn their anger into a constructive force for reshaping their lives. With a new introduction by the author, The Dance of Anger is ready to lead the next generation.
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- Catherine
- 13-04-2017
Good info narrator not so Much
The information is great but the narrator sounds like a school madam a bit off putting. Maybe I need to work on my anger around that.
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- Ruth
- 13-09-2020
Great learnings!
great learnings... highly recommend. narrator ws fine though some other reviews said otherwise. don't let that put you off reading this excellent book to strengthen and build women's confidence in themselves abd relationships
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- Amazon Customer
- 22-07-2020
Continues to be relevant 35 years on
This book gives women permission to be angry and to use anger as a signal for highlighting unmet needs. Dr Learner also gives examples of how women can be angry without holding a grudge and distancing from the people they care about or letting loose and ruining their chance for change in relationships. Dr Learner uses Family Systems Theory in a way that is understandable to general public and normalizes family resistance to change, motivating women to persist with personal change in relationships.
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- Kirsten Chan
- 07-07-2020
Life changing
This book is basically talking about boundaries but I love that it gives so many practical ideas and ways to enforce boundaries which is what I’ve had trouble with in the past. I saw myself in many of the examples and will definitely find this book useful to re listen to.
It’s also taught me too that I’m not responsible for anyone but myself.
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- Jasmine Gailer
- 10-03-2020
Not just about Anger: Will make sense your entire life!
This book blew my mind. I feel like every relationship in my life finally makes sense. All the patterns, habits, communication...just like “ooooohhhh I get it now”. I feel like this book would help women AND men, and not just with anger. It explains all our patterns in relationship so that we can FIX them if we want to. And if we have the courage.
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- Rebecca
- 29-10-2019
A Must Read
All sexes should read this book if self exploration and understanding is what they are looking for.
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- Anonymous User
- 03-08-2019
The voice was so aggressive and offputting!!!
It is unfortunate that the voice was so terrible because the contents is revolutionary and game changing for how to think and behave.
For those of us who overfunction, like control, take responaibility for other people's emotional well-being this is a must read (in book form, not with this very attacking voice).
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- Anonymous User
- 09-02-2018
Great book!
As always, Harriet Lerner gives so much excellent practical advice, shares many stories & communicates very clearly. Loved this book!
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- Amazon Customer
- 08-09-2017
Wish had read it years ago
I have enjoyed this book so much. I learned so much and I wish I had read it years ago. I recommend it to any man or woman who feel stuck in a relationship with their partner, parents, children , or colleagues. I think the discussions apply to both gender, and men can benefit as much as women.
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- Mallin
- 18-05-2018
Quick, concise, tactics and a good narrator
I've never left a review before. I'll first talk about the book, without trying to give away anything (read it!), and then the narrator.
BOOK: This book is really awesome. I'm not a fan of reading self help books, I find them preachy, repetitive, and drawn out. This was the exact opposite. The book was written like a good paper: tell them what you're going to tell them, explain it in detail, summarize what you've told them. She goes over what the book will do and what it won't do. Then she goes into it, providing ONE example. Towards the end, she introduces a new concept. Before she delves into the new concept, she summarizes everything you've just learned, gives a different spin on the example, and tells you what chapter to go back to if you need more help. She then reintroduces the new topic and explores that further. It was very clear, and very quick.
NARRATOR: She did an awesome job. SUPERB. I loved listening to her. I actually thought she was the author because she spoke so authoritatively. She didn't try to get fancy and come up with voices/accents for each character the author noticed. In fact, I did not appreciate how wonderful of a job she did until I started listening to the "Why Won't You Apologize" book by the same author, narrated horribly by someone else. Barbara Caruso did such a good job, I'm going to look for other books narrated by her. But for this self-help book, her ability to speak so clearly and authoritatively really just drove home all the points the author made. It was a wonderful combination.
17 people found this helpful
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- Two Cents
- 11-12-2016
Great Material, delivery feels dated
I read this for a class and it was an ideal supplement to my other class texts. The material is good, sometimes the delivery sounds dated. Great read for a man or woman.
6 people found this helpful
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- Maribe Z.
- 18-07-2017
Most helpful self help book ever!
Any additional comments?
I originally read this book 20 years ago, and recently felt the need to revisit it. I downloaded the audio book (long commute) and found it just as helpful. The narrator was excellent, and I love the stories and different examples of how to put the advice into play. I only wish that there were a non gender specific version for reluctant men, because the advice given does bridge the gender gap if one is able to "hear" past the she/her narrative.
5 people found this helpful
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- Knight
- 05-07-2017
Learn to benefit from power of anger!
Helpful for either gender, and for any relationships. Dr. Lerner explains how we can break the cycle of blaming in a relationship.
4 people found this helpful
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- Danielle D.
- 17-03-2017
Read it now
So much practical advice and examples help learn your part in your relationships and how to change yourself to change the dynamic
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- Iris Zelada
- 22-09-2019
So necessary!!!
Wish everyone, especially women had access to such a comprehensive material! You will definitely relate to so many situations described in this book.
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- Johnny Newell
- 11-08-2019
even as a man I loved this book.
highly recommend this . So much insight not only for women, but for anyone. I am thankful my wife recommended that I listen.
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- Marcy Field
- 04-08-2020
Every woman should read this book!
The stories are excrllent examples of problems then showing a better way to think and speak that works.
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- Meri Levy
- 22-10-2018
Love the book, but the narrator is a bit clipped
I read this book in my 20s and it really changed my life. I enjoyed hearing it again. It has wonderful tools for changing your relationships.
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- GI
- 27-07-2018
A must read to manage your temper
the book gives good care studies of different types of situations where one can learn to manage anger while making oness point of view clear without antagonizing the other
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- Carlene Celeste
- 03-10-2017
A wonderful, insightful book
This is the 3rd time I've returned to this book and each time I find new insights. Harriet Lerner has helped a great many people with this book, the discussion on who is responsible for what, the questions she guides us to ask ourselves and the position of being for ourselves and not against others is just what I have needed time and again in my life.
Harriet helps us to see that as women we're often encouraged to feel responsible for the thoughts, feelings and wellbeing of others but not for our own, she calls this being in a de-selfed position. By owning the responsibility for our own wellbeing, seeing where and how our actions are part of the patterns in which we are entrenched, we can choose new behaviours breaking the cycle of impotent anger and using our anger as a tool for transformation and self empowerment.
5 people found this helpful
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- Zahra
- 27-04-2017
absolute gem of a book
Dr Lerner's understanding of human relationships is second to none, investing your time in listening to this book means improving your understanding of yourself and others
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- Aminah
- 29-07-2019
A great read for amazing insight
I had great insights from this book. The audio was a little dated but the advice is timeless.
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- Sj
- 13-02-2019
Brilliant!!
As a relationship Counsellor I highly recommend this book to everybody, not just women. It covers all the things I cover with my couples so it was great to listen and be nodding and agreeing everything!
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- Pete
- 18-01-2019
Not for men
As a man, I got a whole 3 minutes in before the anger started to dance. Chauvenistic to the extreme, which is a shame as some of non gender specific insight in the first minute was useful.
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- Anna Ferfeli
- 20-02-2021
New perspectives
This is a great work to help offer new perspectives in understanding how anger is channelled. A lot of food for thought and many actionable suggestions to change patterns and reconstruct the self without building frustration. Definitely to be read several times.
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- Marayam
- 21-10-2020
Great narrator great book
its a great antidote and guidance to where im at now. Will be reading it a 2nd time to make notes
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- Sarita
- 08-07-2020
A really helpful book
I've listened to this book twice now and I'm sure I'll listen again in the future. It's really helped me make sense of my feelings a behaviours. I wholeheartedly recommend it!
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- Anonymous User
- 05-07-2020
Awesome book, full of information
Of understanding patterns and how to navigate them. You have to come back to this book any time you need it.
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- Trusted buyer
- 24-12-2018
Fantastic book
Absolutely loved this book. Will be reading it again (and again). Brilliantly insightful. Packed with wise insight.
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