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The Coaching Habit

Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever
Narrated by: Daniel Maté
Length: 3 hrs and 10 mins
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Publisher's Summary

2016 Voice Arts Award Finalist

Coaching is an essential skill for leaders. But for most busy, overworked managers, coaching employees is done badly, or not at all. They're just too busy, and it's too hard to change.

But what if managers could coach their people in 10 minutes or less?

In Michael Bungay Stanier's The Coaching Habit, coaching becomes a regular, informal part of your day so managers and their teams can work less hard and have more impact.

Drawing on years of experience training more than 10,000 busy managers from around the globe in practical, everyday coaching skills, Bungay Stanier reveals how to unlock your peoples' potential. He unpacks seven essential coaching questions to demonstrate how - by saying less and asking more - you can develop coaching methods that produce great results.

  • Get straight to the point in any conversation with The Kickstart Question
  • Stay on track during any interaction with The Awe Question
  • Save hours of time for yourself with The Lazy Question, and hours of time for others with The Strategic Question
  • Get to the heart of any interpersonal or external challenge with The Focus Question and The Foundation Question

©2016 Box of Crayons (P)2016 Post Hypnotic Press Inc.

Critic Reviews

"Coaching is an art, and it's far easier said than done. It takes courage to ask a question, rather than offer up advice, provide an answer, or unleash a solution. Giving another person the opportunity to find their own way, make their own mistakes, and create their own wisdom is both brave and vulnerable. It can also mean unlearning our ''fix it'' habits. In this practical and inspiring book, Michael shares seven transformative questions that can make a difference in how we lead and support. And, he guides us through the tricky part - how to take this new information and turn it into habits and a daily practice." (Brené Brown, author of Rising Strong and Daring Greatly)
"Daniel Maté sounds like an enthusiastic teacher as he narrates this upbeat lesson.... His entertaining phrasing and authentic presence give the author's ideas extra power." ( AudioFile)

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Cuts Through the Noise about Coaching

If you could sum up The Coaching Habit in three words, what would they be?

Practical, Inspiring and Do-able

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The Coaching Habit is a practical guide to making any Coach, Manager and Leader more effective. Putting into practice the 7 questions has transformed the way I deal with my clients, my staff and collaborators and even my family.

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Too much advertising

I struggled to finish this book. There was too much advertising other products than teaching anything.

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inspirational

loved this book. great tools for managing teams and helping you with your self development in coaching. I am using the tools to help me drill down to real challenges. thank you Michael

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Hard no.

Waaaay too long to get to the point and too much fluff. First few chapters are pointless. The constant advertising for their forums gets old quickly too.

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Every coach needs to read this

Like most if us, I have listened to and read a lot if coaching books. This is short and to the point. Very accessible and does not get too bogged down in reiterating the point. A must read. Highly recommended.

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Simple, concise and powerful

Whilst I am not a business coach I am a therapist and this book was a fabulous check list of what I already do well and what I can do better. Highly recommend it to anyone dealing with people.

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Valuable technique and questions to use

Good read that provided some good examples of what to do and what to avoid. I’ll be reading again and visiting the website for the extras.

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The go to coaching book!

If you are new to coaching, or even if you aren't then this is the book for you. The tips and the explanations are fantastic and it makes things so clear and easy that anyone can follow it and see results!

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A guide to understanding coaching

When this book was first recommended to me I hesitated, what do I need a coaching book for? Having read this now I am working on applying this in my life, this is helping me improve my relationships and be a better listener.
If you are looking to work with a coach, read this before you start.

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Excellent and implementable. No buzzword bulltish

Excellent and implementable. No buzzword bulltish. It might be that both he and I are from Australia and we don't stand for management bulltish, but he cuts through and it is very relatable and useful.

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  • B. Ferguson
  • 04-04-2017

Elegant and Excellent

This book is short and simple yet complete. It's very applicable with lots of great questions and examples. As a person who is an analyst and problem solver, almost as soon as someone presents a situation to me in the form of a sentence, I would provide a solution. People don't like that and it's annoying. As a result, I have been working on communication and asking questions. The book provided me with more why, more questions, and perspective. I have ordered a physical copy of the book for each person at my company. I feel it will help me make questions more of a habit. After all, as a problem solver I have a natural curiosity, just need to harness it for the better

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  • Radu Antoniu
  • 11-08-2016

Good information, very well read

Good information. Very well read by the narrator. This book is better read than listened though

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  • Scott
  • 26-08-2016

practical application, not theoretical

the coaching habit gave me specific tools that I could use to manage my employees and I've started using those tools. I like that the book is very practical and its application and not theoretical like so many management books. I'm recommending it to all my colleagues.

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  • Andrew Morris
  • 09-07-2016

very cool

simple advice to be a great business coach. I loved the habit focus. I loved the simple questions. this is a book you can share.

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  • Elita Torres
  • 16-08-2016

Coaching made simple

The Coaching habit delves into the key questions a coach can ask to get into the root of the issue quickly and to help further develop your team.

There are too many leaders who rush in with the solution first without asking the right questions. This book will help you build the habits necessary to change that.

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  • A. Yoshida
  • 11-08-2016

What's on your mind?

The advice given in this book could probably have been summed up in a magazine article. It is only a starting point to coaching employees. You ask questions like "what's on your mind?" and "what else is on your mind?" to start a free flowing conversation. But before they start complaining or gossiping, get them to focus on their problems by asking the question "what are the challenges that you're now facing?" The advice is simple but most people would find it hard to really listen to the answers and give the employees room to learn and grow on their own. The book also refers to a lot of popular business books (about building good habits, motivating employees, decision-making, etc.). If you haven't read those books, it's useful to know the key points. If you have, it feels like a rip-off to get highlights of books that you've already read.

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  • LoveShoes
  • 06-12-2016

Best Ever

I read a lot of business books. This was PERFECT for my needs. It was clear and straightforward. Concepts were presented in a very accessible, creative and innovative manner. The concepts were so practical that I found myself reading/learning one day, and using them the next day. I also taught The concepts to others at work. The book is THAT GOOD. I am a raving fan.

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  • Juana Washington
  • 03-10-2016

Great Read for Coaches of all Levels

If you could sum up The Coaching Habit in three words, what would they be?

The Coaching Habit is a great tool for individuals trying to become a coach, refresh thier coaching skills, or develop new coaching skills. A great read with effective tools to aid in the implementation of these new ideas. Worth the read!

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I liked the examples and opportunity to further your knowledge through the website available to readers.

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Easy to follow and great guidance.

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  • happygirl
  • 24-06-2017

Useful ? as strategies - could have been 1 hr

What did you like best about The Coaching Habit? What did you like least?

The questions are appropriate and useful.
I could have done w/o all the trite humor, dragging things out. It's a business book, I'm in business-minded mode, just get to the point w/ lesser ya da ya da. (see)

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good attitude.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 19-08-2016

A brave new leadership world!

I had failed to recognize the "drama triangle" until this book. So... Now what? I will practice the following:
Instead of jumping into advice giving, I will ask a question acknowledge the response, and ask "and what else"?

Thank you for sharing your experiences to promote growth for others.

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  • John Rush
  • 07-11-2017

lots of advertising for online material

There was some useful material in this audio book, dragged out over several chapters. Every chapter concluded with advertisement for his online material. This book should be free if they intend on using it to purely advertise.

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  • Mr. Fp Booth
  • 22-09-2017

The right amount of things to remember.

Will stand up to constant relistening. Simple effective concepts put in context. Well organised ideas

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  • James
  • 21-09-2017

Lots of very good tips and tricks. Well worth it

This book is packed with lots of useful tips and tricks. It is easy to follow and well worth listening to... more than once!

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 03-07-2017

Practical, targeted and engaging

This audiobook ticks all the boxes. Content wise it is excellent - clear examples, very practical and with obvious use in the day to day. I found myself using many of the questions automatically and am already having better and more productive conversations as a result.

The performance is great too - well delivered with a playful edge

Highly recommended to anyone involved in leading or coaching individuals.

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  • Annabelle Pillay
  • 24-09-2017

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brilliant book. highly recommended and insightful...I wish I had bumped into this about 4 years earlier, but never too late to apply thw concepts that i have learnt.

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  • S. L. Johnson
  • 08-06-2017

Simple and effective, a book I will revisit over

Simple and effective, a book I will revisit over and over to keep me honest to what I do.

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  • Harry Bear
  • 06-01-2017

Outstanding, motivating, exciting, and learning experience!

Enjoyed this book so much! Learnt a lot and left with some amazing, simple and practical tools that I can apply and continue to learn and develop further.

It highly recommend it!

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  • Peter R
  • 25-12-2016

great coaching skills start here.

so many simple and clear steps for anyone wanting to get coaching. recommended for all!

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  • Michael Webster
  • 15-12-2016

Practical advice for starting a coaching habit

Looking forward to use the 7 questions to start my coaching habit. Brilliantly presented and narated.

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  • 匿名
  • 02-09-2018

A must read for coaches and managers alike

BEST AUDIO BOOK ON THIS SUBJECT - get it, you won’t regret it! Simply put and well thought out, I loved every minute of this. Easy to apply as well, which is not true of a lot of audio books.

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