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The secret to being a woman that every man wants...

Girl meets boy. They go out and have a great time. They go out a few more times. It seems to be getting serious. 

And then…

Boy suddenly stops calling, while girl wonders what the hell happened again. 

Is this what your love life looks like? A constant cycle of potentials that never quite seem to come to fruition? Being single and navigating the dating pool is a frustrating experience. From being hit on by creeps asking for nudes to being hurt by yet another rejection - it’s enough to make even the most hopeful romantic give up on finding love.

And it becomes even more frustrating when you hear about your friend who met the perfect guy after just one date, or your coworker who never seems to have a problem finding a decent man. What do they have that you don’t?

They are probably Brilliant Bitches, and they don’t even realize it.

Brilliant Bitches are women who have the desirable traits that quality men truly want in their lives.

Even if you don’t think you are one right now, you can unleash your inner Brilliant Bitch with this instructive handbook that will show you exactly how to become irresistible to men without losing yourself in the process.

In The 7 Essential Elements of Irresistible Women, you will discover:

  • The incredibly alluring quality that every woman has, and how to develop it for maximum effect 
  • What guys really mean when they say they’re looking for someone fun 
  • The real reason why you always end up on dates you’d rather not be in, with guys you’d rather not be with 
  • How to stop settling for “good enough” without feeling like you’re missing out 
  • The number-one thing you should never talk about that kills the mood immediately and sends him the wrong message 
  • The type of guy you should be dating, and the telltale signs that a potential partner is one of them 
  • Four clever ways to play it cool and make him work for it without being a total tease 
  • Bonus content: Seven Myths That Are Ruining Your Love Life

And much more.

Even if you’re not naturally outgoing or flirtatious, you can still be a Brilliant Bitch and attract the right guy. You don’t have to change who you are just to fit someone’s idea of the perfect woman.

Being a Brilliant Bitch is all about becoming the woman you were meant to be and treating yourself well so that you know how others should be treating you. No need to tolerate those wishy-washy guys who are unsure of you, or those who just show up when it’s convenient for them. By setting your standards, you can get to Mr. Right faster because you’ll have fewer frogs to go through.

Are you ready to attract Mr. Right? If you want to escape your dating nightmare and wake up to the man of your dreams, then scroll up, and click the "buy now" button right now.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio. 

©2020 Brilliant Vixen Dating (P)2021 Brilliant Vixen Dating

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  • Peggy Liao
  • 10-03-2021

De-mystify Men's Brain

Just like men are trying to understand women, women are also trying to decode what men are thinking, and what gets them tick or not. There are many myths out there about how bad guys are easily winning girls, when in reality this book shows us how there are still quality men out there and they just have to be found and attracted by quality women. This book debunk all those nonsense out there.

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  • Allie
  • 09-03-2021

Don’t think twice, you need to read this book

This book is an absolute essential for anyone who is trying to better themselves in any way. Yes it does specify it will help in the world of dating but if that isn’t your thing, don’t let it turn you away. This is an incredible self improvement book. Don’t get me wrong, it will slap you in the face with cold hard reality but it’s needed. After reading this book, I really started looking at my life in a different way and then made huge life changes that I had been putting off until the “time was right.” Well, the timing is never right for certain things and this book really helped me realize that. I needed to put my wants and needs to better myself ahead of anything else and that’s what I’ve done. This book launched me on my path to self improvement and I will recommend it to anyone I cross paths with who is ready to do the same.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 05-03-2021

Accurate and Informative

Bought this for my sister-in-law who has struggled with dating over the last two years. She has always talked about getting ghosted, where guys apparently go on a couple of dates with her, and things seem like they're going great, and then all of a sudden they drop out of contact. I saw this title, and bought if for her thinking it might give her some insight into why this kept happening to her. Apparently it was a great decision! She keeps talking about how this book helped her understand that she might have been coming on too strong, and a few other social habits that kept scaring guys off.

Now, apparently, she is the one having to cut things off with other guys, as they are sticking around longer! I guess whatever she learned worked, haha. So for anyone out there who keeps getting ghosted, and might be wondering how they can change their behavior to be less off-putting, then I would definitely suggest this title!

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  • Autumn
  • 03-03-2021

Not just for dating

This book has been wonderful to read to help even with my current relationship.

For example, I started implementing some tips on how to flirt like smiling more and asking more questions. These 2 things alone have really helped change the dynamic. I felt when I was smiling more, I was genuinely happier. I think that rubbed off and it has really helped bring some positivity to the days, even when it's not necessarily a "negative" day. Asking questions allowed for us to be a lot more engaged, and truly it's so life-changing!

Definitely recommend this book for those even in a relationship to help bring some alternative perspectives to the relationship :)

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  • Chun
  • 02-03-2021

Easy to listen and learn!

I lent this book to my friend, and she was so surprised. She didn't aware of how amazing she was for the right guy! It's great to see her finding and developing her alluring quality.

This book shows girls a vital but easily overlooked mindset: It’s not that you want to change who you are to fit someone's of the perfect woman, but that you can actually exert your characteristics to attract the right one!

Recommended to the ladies that always feel unconfident or insecure in their relationship.

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  • Taha
  • 01-03-2021

Informative Book !

This book is a valuable gift for a friend who was dumped many times by guys, and she doesn't understand why. Still, the book has given her a clear vision and insightful explanation of what really guys like in a woman and why she found herself several times in unwanted situations and dates that ended up with a sad story. This book is informative, and I highly recommend it.

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  • Maiysha Brown
  • 26-02-2021

A dating woman's must read

I love the idea of a Brilliant Vixen. These 7 Essentials are exactly that, essential, they're the total package. Easy principals to understand and incorporate into your life. Things you may not have realized you were missing but make sense. This book was very helpful and a necessity for any women dating.

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  • Kurt
  • 24-02-2021

This helped in communicating with my Daughter

Being on the Male side of things I actually listened to Victoria Knightly audiobook to help me understand this more for my daughter. Katheryn Siggers British voice was easy to listen to and helps narrate and explains those guys aren't focused on the right girl but themselves. My daughter feels a lot better in understanding that you don't have to change to find that perfect Mr. Right as it will come.

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  • Cindy Hope
  • 23-02-2021

A must read if you are single!

I dont know why some people object to reading a book on dating, as if everything is supposed to come so naturally. When each one of us is raised often times in totally different ways that affect our communication with the opposite sex. Yes this book is for woman... because men are pretty simple (no offense) in dating - and ladies if you can get out of your own head- follow some really helpful tips you can move into the long term dating arena. I love the chapter on 'high value' - that has always been something I worked on. Be unique, be rare, consider your value and then dont lower your standards ! Great listen!!

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  • T. Huang
  • 23-02-2021

Simple and easy listen

I think the book captures the point of “being who you want to date” well. I wish the author provided more in-depth examples of phrases and sentences people can use for flirting. Dating varies greatly from person to person hence this are no hard and fast rules to dating. I like that the book emphasizes that at the end of the day dating shouldn’t be about just finding another person but about you being comfortable with yourself and wanting to improve yourself. I really agree with this.

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  • Chandler Kitching
  • 12-03-2021

Gave this to my friend.. She is getting engaged

Almost a month after I gave this book to my friend she began to get guys to start begging for her. Instead of ghosting her like they always did for years, they actually won't leave her alone. After many dates she found a man who already says he wants to propose.. I mean what the heck? Haha I don't know how she did it but whatever is in this book works. I feel like this book levels the playing field and maybe even gives women an edge. Dating advice is super common with men but the women don't have as many resources. Making this book worth its weight in gold. I mean for the price I paid it was almost free because her life has changed. I bought it as a gag gift for her but she actually took the information, applied it and is now a woman player. I am so proud haha.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 25-02-2021

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD READ THIS!!!!!

“Yes, I am a man reading a book made for women. This book is not just for single woman either, but married women in good relationships can get some good information out of it. From a mans point of view the author nails it. Every chapter I was like “Yes, this is what I want in a woman! It was like the book was reading every thought!” If women followed the advice in this book, they could have any man they want. Men are simple minded, and doesn’t take much to show a man why women are amazing! Also, men by reading this, you will get some helpful information because it has some views on how women think. The narrator has an sexy accent, which is a bonus, too!

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  • Alex
  • 24-02-2021

Great advice for high value women

I didn't exactly know what to expect going in. I've found that a lot of these books come across as fundamentally anti-male, but this was a breathe of fresh air. It focuses on becoming a high value woman that men compete over. Particular focus on using your feminine advantages to their maximum effect. It had a lot of use in the current situation where online dating is a "must use" and that comes with its own set of complications. I've recommended this to a few of my friends to help them break free of their own cycle of bad relationships. I'm certain it will help

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  • João Virtudes
  • 18-02-2021

Interest information and tips

It really depends from person to person but generally speaking there are a lot of good tips to take in on this book!

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  • Brian S
  • 18-02-2021

Very useful guide to dating

Make no mistake, this audiobook is definitely geared toward women. However, I listened to it to “see things from the other side,” so to speak — to get insights on my own dating life from the female perspective. In the end, I definitely felt like I got some of those things, which is why I enjoyed this one.

But that’s not all that important here — at least not for the target market. In reality, this audiobook is chock-full of good dating advice for women of all ages. I especially liked how it’s conveniently structured around the “7 essential elements” promised by the title. That organization made for a cohesive, impactful listen.

I’d definitely recommend checking it out if you’re interested to see what it says.

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  • SisB
  • 18-02-2021

Helpful!

The book gives a clear guideline for finding the right person. The book provides and reveals the techniques and the great secret women use to attract men. It provides insight into getting the man of your dream. It gives information on the alluring quality that every woman has and hints at developing it for maximum effect.
The book teaches how to be a sensitive, fun, and high-valued woman. The qualities are already in one. It is just for one to note one's vibration.
People can tell if you are fun or not, but it hints at putting a value on oneself. It gives seven-element to help boost happiness and attract quality matches.

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  • Amaan shamraiz
  • 16-02-2021

Extremely Helpful!

Especially within and throughout this pandemic its been hard to find a meaningful relationship. However, this book with its detailed and informative information allowed me to learn and execute these skills to get me into the meaningful relationship im in today. Highly recommended.

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