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Say Hello

By: Carly Findlay
Narrated by: Carly Findlay
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A forthright, honest, and rousingly triumphant memoir from a woman who has to live with a highly visible different appearance due to a rare skin condition. Say hello to Carly.

"In fairy tales,the characters who look different are often cast as the villain or monsters. It's only when they shed their unconventional skin that they are seen as 'good' or less frightening. There are very few stories where the character that looks different is the hero of the story.... I've been the hero of my story - telling it on my own terms, proud about my facial difference and disability, not wanting a cure for my rare, severe, and sometimes confronting skin condition, and knowing that I am beautiful even though I don't have beauty privilege."

This honest, outspoken, and thought-provoking memoir by award-winning writer and appearance activist Carly Findlay will challenge all your assumptions and beliefs about what it is like to have a visibly different appearance. Carly lives with a rare skin condition, Ichthyosis, and what she faces every day, and what she has to live with, will have you cheering for her and her courage and irrepressible spirit. This is both a moving memoir and a proud manifesto on disability and appearance diversity issues.

"Believe the hype - by turns frank, funny, and fearsome, Findlay's extraordinary memoir is an early contender for 2019's best Australian non-fiction...a powerful and moving invitation to examine the structures of privilege and dehumanisation that we so desperately need address in this country." (Better Read Than Dead)

"A proud celebration of appearance difference...a valuable read." (Herald Sun)

"Defiant, unsettling and thought-provoking." (The Age)

©2019 Carly Findlay (P)2019 HarperAudio

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A fantastic read and reflection

I really enjoyed Carly’s narration of her book ‘Say Hello’. Living with a chronic illness myself, hearing Carly’s story and her personal experiences really resonated with me. It was the first time I’d heard someone else vocalise experiences with living with a disability in work place scenarios and the every day ableism experiences. I highly recommend ‘Say Hello’ to hear Carly’s story and experiences and learn to say hello first.

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An enjoyable and interesting book!

An interesting and enjoyable read about what Carly has had to put up with her whole life. It made me reflect on how people's (and My own ) reactions to those who are different can impact someone. It was a bit repetitive in some parts, although by the end I appreciated why it was all included and how the reactions and questions she has received don't ever stop. i really enjoyed listening to Carlys narration and feel it made her syory much more personable. Would recommend this book as it provides a detailed account on living with a disability.

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PLEASE, say hello it can lead to wonderfull times

Having followed Carly on Twitter for the past two years, I just had to read her story.

I love that it was written for people like me who don’t have a disability but have children, siblings, parents or friends living with disabilities.

Thank you Carly for your story. I can see how your very beginning shaped who you are now and LOVE that your voice is being heard.

I especially loved how honest you were.
I know I am guilty of ableism and I can even see myself whilst in the throes of it but I am trying to change.

Your story is about you but also every other person who looks different or is different.

Thank you again.

Also, I loved how you shared your love for Adam so openly and you voiced something I have never understood - why do people think they have the right to ask you or any other person whether they ‘can’ have sex - that is so very intrusive. Thank you for saying it’s none of our fucking business.

So 5 stars and I am recommending your book to my mother who will love it as much as I have.

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If you're not listening and learning, why?

Aggressive and beautiful and strong and gentle. I learnt so much from Carly. I have so much more to learn.

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Say Hello

A raw and honest account from Carly about Carly, I especially loved hearing it read in her own voice with emotion shining through.
Eye opening and full of valuable, kind advice that we all need to hear and take onboard to improve our lives and happiness.

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Important book

Such an important book, particularly for non-disabled people to be better allies. Loved listening to Carly’s voice tell her own story.

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Representation matters

Thank you so much Carly for this excellent book on your important and foundational experiences. You are so kind and brave to share these, especially the hurts! Wonderful reading, left me teary at times but better for reading xx

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Fabulous and challenging read

Carly Findlay’s book is fantastic - it’s captivating, challenging, sad, and funny in equal measures. This book should be part of the high school curriculum. Thank you for your efforts in educating others Carly.

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Brilliant!

I loved this book! It has taught me a lot, thanks so much for writing and narrating it Carly you are fantastic!

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Carly is a voice I always want to hear more from ♡

I'll admit this book left me a lot to think about and unpack, but Carlys approach and style divided between topics expertly and allowed for brevity between the hard stuff. Loved it!

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