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Raising Boys in the 21st Century

How to help our boys become open-hearted, kind and strong men

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Raising Boys in the 21st Century

By: Steve Biddulph
Narrated by: Steve Biddulph
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 The most popular book ever about raising boys is back, significantly updated to help raise sons in a world that offers gender equality, respect and a whole new kind of man, but is still haunted by toxic masculinity.

You’ll find cutting-edge science about the ‘physical fours’, the ‘emotional eights’ and how puberty can be turned into a positive time, along with hundreds of other practical tips for raising a son.

No two boys are alike, and you have to get to know our own unique boy. The idea that ‘if we understand them, we can help them’ is what has made this book so well loved and trusted in over a million homes.

As one of Australia’s best-known psychologists for almost 30 years, Steve has introduced a generation of fathers into hands-on engagement with kids, and helped thousands of mothers gain confidence in their ability to raise sons well. He has worked with schools in 17 countries, and 130,000 parents have heard his unforgettable live talks.

‘Biddulph is electrifying’
-Telegraph

‘Biddulph is a spellbinder’
– 60 Minutes
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Fantastic to listen to, with a wealth of knowledge to put into practice. Thank you 🙏

Life changing!

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An amazing book of understanding a d knowledge. I have now come to understand my son's feelings and thinking. I realised the mistakes I have done and will never want to make again. Thank you Steve

Enlightenment

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Such a great book with lots of practical suggestions and ideas. A definite re-read/listen.

So informative. Fascinating!

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WOW! Just amazing! A must read or listen on audible. I have
the hard copy but having Steve narrate, makes it much more enjoyable!

An excellent book!

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I'm glad I took the to read this, even to bring awareness to my parenting as well as the impact my behaviour has on his development (as opposed to being reactive). Also provided some practical tools, which I can introduce to help my son and I build and foster a better relationship. Would recommend. Thanks Steve.

Great book, build awareness and practical tools

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provided great insight into the differences of boys development across the lifespan and the role of mothers and fathers. Provided good thoughts on schooling for boys and how their needs differ from girls. Overall a great book that has helped me as a father have a different perspective of my 2 sons needs. Highly recommend to any parent with boys.

Great insight for parents

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So much great and kind insight for both Mums and Dads! Recommended for all parents with boys and girls!

Highly recommended for parents with boys of all ages!

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I really enjoyed the sound of Steve’s voice and found it soothing to listen to at the end of the day.

Interesting and helpful

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I was skeptical when I started however this book has changed my views on the topic and is essential for parents, and also people understanding other men, women, what shapes us, why things are the way they are in the world and how we can change them.

A must read, really insightful

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Loved this book and how relatable it is to the everyday. Left feeling much more confident in raising my little boy. Have recommended it to all I know who also have boys.

Fabulous book

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