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Marrying the Mistress

Narrated by: Lindsay Duncan
Length: 9 hrs and 2 mins
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Merrion Palmer has been Judge Guy Stockdale's mistress for the last seven years and his wife and two grown-up sons know absolutely nothing about her. Up until now, Guy and Merrion have enjoyed a blissfully, uncomplicated relationship in stolen moments in Merrion's flat, and to the rest of the world, Guy has played the part of model husband, father and grandfather.

But now the time has come for things to change. Guy has become conscious of wasted years and he wants to share his relationship with Merrion with the world. He wants, dammit, to marry her. Yet he is quite unprepared for the storm that will follow...

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"The court official leaned closer. 'What's gone past', he said, 'is not just an advocate, any old lady advocate. What's gone past is his Honour's totty.'" And what's going past is the life of Guy Stockdale, a 62-year-old judge, who has been married forever, has two sons--Simon and Alan--and three grandchildren. For the past seven years, he's also had a mistress. Merrion Palmer is intelligent, attractive, and half Guy's age, which also makes her younger than both Simon and Alan. Her dad died when she was a toddler and she's well aware that Guy is something of a father substitute. For years the role of mistress has suited her, but, suddenly, this style of relationship isn't enough for either of them. They've both had enough of sneaking around and avoiding people, so Guy has momentously made up his mind to leave his wife, Laura, and marry Merrion. Marrying the Mistress dives into the shock waves that buffet the Stockdale family after Guy leaves Laura. The novel addresses the question of how his sons are going to cope, the explosive opinions of his forthright daughter-in-law Carrie and what his teenage grandchildren make of it all. Can any of them avoid taking sides? Should they? And what about the abandoned wife, Laura, a woman apparently so long-sufferingly self-sacrificing she makes Mother Teresa look selfish? From queen of the saga Joanna Trollope comes a dexterous portrayal of the causes and effects of marital breakdown." (Amazon.com review)

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Enveloping

Beautifully narrated story of a family with whom you can immediately relate. This book takes you into an intriguing world of relationships, love and consequences.

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  • Jenny
  • 11-10-2012

My least favorite Joanna Trollope book

What would have made Marrying the Mistress better?

I personally didn't enjoy the narrator of this title - I don't know if it was her inflection, or the writing, but I thought the characters were on the whole awful people.

Would you ever listen to anything by Joanna Trollope again?

I've previously really enjoyed all of the previous Trollope books - would consider another one.

How could the performance have been better?

Different narrator definitely.

What character would you cut from Marrying the Mistress?

The daughters Rachel and Emma - horrible girls, spoilt.

Any additional comments?

Just overall completely unimpressed.

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  • thomas
  • 07-05-2014

Joanna Trollope at her best !

Would you listen to Marrying the Mistress again? Why?

Joanna Trollope explores family life presenting the intimate emotional heart of it. This book is so respectful of the validity of all the characters needs and allows the reader to share their pain and confusion in such an intimate but gritty manner.

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  • Mal
  • 01-10-2013

An absorbing read

Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

Yes, beautifully read and full of insight into family psyche

Who was your favorite character and why?

Jack - Because he was growing up and learning from his own and other people's experiences.

Have you listened to any of Lindsay Duncan’s other performances? How does this one compare?

Yes, Brother & Sister. I felt this book was marginally more insightful.

Was there a moment in the book that particularly moved you?

The surprise ending and the reasons behind it.

Any additional comments?

I felt this book showed Joanna Trollope's empathy and amazing insight into the feelings experienced by people in their interactions with others, particularly as they relate to different aspects of love within a family.

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  • sarahmoose2000
  • 05-03-2013

Unhappy Families

The father of the family decides to marry his mistress of seven years, but he needs to divorce his wife first. The sons are torn as to how best support each parent. I found it difficult to feel pity for the wife, as although she was hard done by, she emotionally blackmailed everybody throughout; ignoring her own children and grandchildren's pain.

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  • Mrs L.
  • 07-07-2019

Splendid

I read this book years ago, accidentally found it in Audible, liked the sample reading and thought I'd give it a go.

So glad I did. There were bits I'd forgotten, bits I'd remember just before they happened. It's Joanna Trollope doing what she does, showing the sort of mess a family can just slide into, how something quite unexpected can not only awaken them to said mess, but show them a way to sort it out. And brilliantly have them do so. You can't go from one of her books to another without a break, or the pattern spoils the interweaving of the situations. It was good to revisit this one.

It was, also, a delight to revisit it in the more than capable hands (or voice) of Lindsay Duncan. Absolutely spot on! I was particularly entertained by the voices she used for Laura, the difficult mother. Excellent.

It's not intellectual, it's certainly NOT froth. It's keenly observant of personal tangles. It's a good listen not taxing but which will capture your attention.

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  • Truffle
  • 07-02-2018

Excellent listen

Firstly an excellent Trollope novel - interesting and excellent characterisation.

The novel worked very well with audible. Narrator was absolutely excellent (I’ll definitely be seeking her out again), and not at all annoying like some can be. A small number of main characters also made the story it easy to follow.

Highly recommend