It is becoming increasingly more and more common to enter into divorce or custody proceedings with a narcissistic partner. Narcissism is caused by DRD4 long gene polymorphism (source: NCBI) as well as many other disorders being caused by an explosion of this gene. The population of narcissists have exploded since 2015, when we began researching and writing our narcissism library of books (over 200 ebooks and audiobooks under the J.B. Snow name brand, in fact!). In 2015, narcissists were one in four. In 2019, narcissists are 2/3 (meaning if you aren’t a narcissist, you are in the minority). 

Narcissism has taken a turn for the worse. Most narcissists have evolved (with the evolution of society) into psychopathic narcissists. So, many people who think they are dealing with a run-of-the-mill narcissist are actually dealing with a psychopathic narcissist. The difference is that narcissists are malevolent and malicious, sneaky and covert. But psychopathic narcissists will go to a whole new level of messing up and sabotaging your life. They are dangerous to the point that they will kill someone to get rid of a problem, and they will be able to sleep better afterward!

If you are in the midst of a high conflict divorce or custody battle with a narcissist, you need to read J.B. Snow’s divorce court series. In the other books, we show you how to be likable in court so that you can gain a better edge in the battle against the narcissist. We show you how to negotiate and work with attorneys. We show you how to game the system and survive the battle emotionally so that you won’t fall into a ball of dribbling misery while you are navigating the contentious divorce and custody environment that your ex has created.  

In this audiobook, we will discuss the hacks and tools that the narcissist will use in divorce court and custody battles to throw you off kilter. The narcissist will make sure that you regret ever meeting him, and he will make a mess out of your finances and your credit. We will tell you real life examples of how the narcissist’s bad judgments in the courtroom can drastically alter and affect his quality of life later, however. The narcissist doesn’t look long term, and you might not be looking long term either when you think that you are losing to the narcissist.   

Sometimes, with a narcissist, losing everything is winning your freedom and the rest of your life back. The game against the narcissist is often an "unanswered prayer", but it is not one that you will likely see in the short term. In my case, it took about two years post narcissistic abuse to recognize that my life was so much better without the narcissist or all the stuff I was fighting for in court. Trust me, you don’t want reminders of the narcissist no matter what way you look at it. The best thing is to wash your hands of all of it and move on.