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By: Kathryn Mannix
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‘Powerful, humane and wise’ JULIA SAMUEL

‘Everyone should read it’ NIGELLA LAWSON

‘Beautiful … This is a book for everyone. You feel held by it’ PHILIPPA PERRY

Most of us have a conversation we’re avoiding.

From the bestselling author of With the End in Mind, this is a book about the conversations that matter and how to have them better – more honestly, more confidently and without regret.

A child coming out to their parent. A family losing someone to terminal illness. A friend noticing the first signs of someone’s dementia. A careers advisor and a teenager with radically different perspectives.

There are moments when we must talk, listen and be there for one another. Why do we so often come away from those times feeling like we could have done more, or should have been braver in the face of discomfort? Why do we skirt the conversations that might matter most?

By bringing together stories with a lifetime’s experience working in medicine and the newest psychology, Mannix offers lessons for how we can better speak our mind and help when others need to.

Kathryn Mannix’s ‘With the End in Mind’ was a Sunday Times bestseller the weeks ending 6 January 2018, 13 January 2018 and 3 February 2018.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2021 Kathryn Mannix (P)2021 HarperCollins Publishers Ltd Conflict Resolution Grief & Loss Medical Personal Development Professionals & Academics Relationships

Critic Reviews

‘Kathryn Mannix is our modern-day prophet … This is an essential book for anyone interested in themselves and their fellow humans’
Greg Wise

‘I adore Kathryn's writing. Always sensitive, always thoughtful, an essential read for those looking to connect’
Cariad Lloyd

‘Kathryn Mannix is a natural born storyteller, and there is so much wisdom, tenderness and love packed into this profoundly beautiful book … Her words brim with grace. I loved this book so very much.’
Rachel Clarke

‘The book’s greatest strength is not just the information it shares, but the pure humanity it shows; the halting, fearful, imperfect conversations between people who are all doing their best and sometimes not getting it right. The gems of wisdom apply to all situations, whether someone is at the end of their life or has had a bad day at work … Compassionate, warm and wise’
The Times

‘Like having a long and rewarding conversation with a really good friend … Perhaps the most important component in all of the chapters, however, is the telling of stories … As with Mannix’s first book, there are many moving tales within these pages … Wise, gentle and profound’
Joanna Cannon, The Guardian, Book of the Day
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what a wonderful book, full of inspirational stories & great wisdom, thank you Kathryn xxx

loved it xx

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What a lovely, tender, thoughtful book.
Thank you Kathryn for contributing so much of your kindness to the society in which we live.

A much needed book for today’s world.

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Wow! Again Kathryn Mannix you've nailed it! Your words, endearing narration & tenderness in your person makes you highly qualified to share your thoughts, experiences & vulnerabilities.
Do find With The End In Mind to read/listen to as well, as I did first & then bought book & audible credit for Listen.
Today I concluded listening & the section on grief was particularly interesting & to hear Kathryn share her truth made it an even more engaging conversation. I was driving to Sydney to see my 97 yo Dad & I opened a conversation with him about his grief following Mum's death 14 years ago.
Thank you for the quality of care you share Kathryn.

Best Advice on How to Listen with Care & Compassion.

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Listen is packed to the rafters with case studies, wisdom learnt, highly valuable advice on how to improve hospital's attitude towards all people. Kathryn Mannix doesn't tread on eggshells because she's been in the trenches. I can only hope she is heard and her words of advice acted on. Our community can be better, much better. I can't imagine no-one gaining something of value from this book.

So much more than the title implies

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This has been a thought provoking book which I believe should be read by not only individuals but organisations like councils and schools where community is a vital part of its offering.

I felt it bringing forth the need to trust. To step into this dance can be scary but is so important, but having this as a foundation will be a huge help. Thank you so much.

A truly beautiful book .

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This is the author's second book and it is just as good as the first. There are so many lessons for life contained within these pages, delivered with compassion and sage wisdom. cannot wait for the next book.

Another worthwhile investment

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