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Let's F*cking Date

Become the Prize, Enjoy the Ride, and Never Settle Again

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Let's F*cking Date

By: Serena Kerrigan
Narrated by: Serena Kerrigan
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“A refreshingly honest approach to modern dating . . . Serena Kerrigan is the big sister you never had, and this book is the friend who grabs your hand and tells you like it is. Consider this your reminder to raise your standards.”—Paige DeSorbo, New York Times bestselling author of How to Giggle

From the content creator, entrepreneur, and voice that over a million women swear by comes the only dating book that will give you a hug and a slap in the face.

“I think I just need to be more chill.” “He said he didn’t want commitment and then got a girlfriend two months later.” “I’m running out of time.” “Everyone I know is engaged and I can’t get a second date.”

If you’ve said any of these to your therapist, your group chat, or yourself at 1 AM, this book is for you.

Let’s F*cking Date is the dating bible for women who want love, have standards, and are done apologizing for either. With laugh-out-loud humor and hard-won wisdom from years of getting it wrong, Serena Kerrigan covers everything from building an unshakeable foundation on your own to making love actually last.

This isn’t another “just manifest the right person” book. It gives you real tools:
The List: separate your non-negotiables from your ego and stop chasing the wrong thing.
The 3P Theory: categorize every date as Potential, Practice, or Plot (so you stop overinvesting in Plot).
The Roster: date multiple people without losing your mind or your morals.
The F*ck No Funeral: a ritual for burying the situationship you should’ve ended three months ago.
The Glue: what actually holds a relationship together when the newness fades (and you’re arguing about the thermostat).

You’re already the prize. Now act like it.
Love, Dating & Attraction Marriage & Long-Term Partnerships Relationships
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Critic Reviews

“Serena Kerrigan writes the way your smartest, funniest friend talks after two glasses of wine. I wish I had this book when I was making all my cringiest dating mistakes. Kerrigan is brutally honest, deeply insightful, and impossible to ignore. Let’s F*cking Date is the confidence boost every woman needs on her nightstand.”—Keltie Knight, Emmy Award-winning TV personality and New York Times bestselling author of Act Like a Lady

“Kerrigan gets real with people looking for love, and she’s living proof that confidence changes everything. With sharp humor, radical honesty, and genuinely useful tools, she cuts through the chaos of modern dating and helps women stop settling for crumbs. Reading this book feels like getting a pep talk, a reality check, and a hug from your funniest friend all at once. Smart, hilarious, and wildly validating.”—Tefi Pessoa, media personality and host of Tefi Talks

“We talk a lot about financial investments, but the biggest investment you'll ever make is who you choose to build a life with. Kerrigan delivers the tough love, practical tools, and confidence every woman needs to stop wasting time on the wrong people and start betting on herself. This book is a must-read.”—Haley Sacks (MrsDowJones on Instagram), New York Times bestselling author of Future Rich Person

“With the perfect mix of humor, confidence, and real talk, Let’s F*cking Date is sharp, unapologetic, and a refreshingly honest approach to modern dating. Serena Kerrigan is the big sister you never had, and this book is the friend who grabs your hand and tells you like it is. Consider this your reminder to raise your standards.”—Paige DeSorbo, New York Times bestselling author of How to Giggle

“Kerrigan, creator of the Let’s F*cking Date online community, brings her brash web persona to this chatty and snark-filled debut dating manual . . . [Her] tone is half big-sister pep talk, half group-chat intervention, and her best moments are blunt, useful reminders to know what one wants and figure out how to get it. . . . Kerrigan’s confidence is infectious, and there are plenty of funny, vulnerable moments . . . Readers seeking funny and no-holds-barred dating advice will find plenty on offer here.”—Publishers Weekly


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