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Internationally acclaimed parenting experts Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish have helped millions of families with their breakthrough, best-selling books How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk, Siblings Without Rivalry, and Liberated Parents, Liberated Children. Now, they return with a lively, down-to-earth guide that tackles the tough issues teens and parents face today. After years of research, lecturing, and feedback, Faber and Mazlish have developed an innovative approach to maintaining a candid, open, mutually respectful dialogue between parents and teens. It's a strategy that curbs conflict, reduces frustration, and promotes thoughtful communication about everything from curfews and drugs to schoolwork and sex.

Written in Faber and Mazlish's trademark accessible style, How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk takes you inside their acclaimed workshops where you will hear, in the words of both parents and teens, what's on the minds of families today. Packed with suggestions that are easy to implement, and reinforced with stories, this indispensable volume will help build a foundation for a healthy relationship that puts the emphasis on rapport rather than reprisals. From age-old concerns about cliques and dating to contemporary worries about binge drinking and cyberbullying, Faber and Mazlish help parents tackle problems before they get out of hand. In their warm, lucid, unpatronizing manner, the authors show families how to be supportive and stay connected during the challenging teenage years.

©2005 Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish (P)2005 HarperCollins Publishers

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Just what I need.

After reading the hard copy of 'how to talk to kids' several times and still struggling to apply to my family, I was pleased to find this teen version on audio. I've listened to the full thing in one day, while my daughter is at school. Just what I needed to refocus and give me the encouragement needed to apply it to our daily challenges.

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excellent tools to navigate the teen years

great listen I wish there was more, maybe another book soon :-) I recommend to all parents.

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  • 08-05-2017

The authors are terrible at narration!

What would have made How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk better?

Use the book for facts and helpful advice rather than a play by play story of their visit to a high school to give a workshop. Hire professional narrator, the authors are terrible at narrating. To get the best info, just read their How to Talk so Teens will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk

What do you think your next listen will be?

I will try another book by this author as long as they are not the narrator!

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Get a professional narrator and use facts rather than stories.

If you could play editor, what scene or scenes would you have cut from How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk?

The book is written like a play in which the author reads all characters but in different annoying voices.

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I could not take another minute of listening to the author narrate the book. I returned the audio for my money back.

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  • SG
  • 24-06-2019

Terrible Narration and Outdated Stories

I really wanted to like this book and find good insight for dealing with my older teens. After the first twenty minutes of listening, I wanted to turn it off because the narrators were doing a terrible job. Their voices for other roles, both parents and teens, was completely unbelievable and the example stories they gave were woefully outdated. Worse than that, the quick resolution of how to handle various scenarios was laughable. The authors' general advice is sound, but so out of date. Will continue searching for better, more contemporary books in this genre.

Sadly, I cannot recommend this book in any form.

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  • psu1989
  • 01-01-2020

What year is it?

I'm 50 and this was like listening to my grandmother talking about pre-teens. Might be better with different vocals and a timely refresh.

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  • Lisa S.
  • 04-05-2018

Insiteful, helpful & hopeful bk 4 parents of teens

Loved it!! The authors give real life examples of struggles between parents & teens. Followed with great examples of how to effectively communicate with your teens!!!

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  • Gera Campbell
  • 20-03-2018

Fantastic!

Wonderful insight and guidance. I really enjoyed and appreciated how she viewed both parents and teens perspectives. I highly recommend this if you have, or will soon have, teens.

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  • 11-09-2017

Good listen for parents with Teens

Would you consider the audio edition of How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk to be better than the print version?

Enjoyed listening to the book. good advice how to engage teens as the grow older and start wanting to spend evenings out with friends.

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  • Maureen R.
  • 16-08-2017

A good listen

I would recommend this for any parents with teens to help with the issues we face and to learn to be able to talk and engage with them differently

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  • Margaret T
  • 15-05-2017

Very helpful advice.

I really enjoyed the suggestions in this book. These suggestion helped to enlighten me in seeing the difficult situations that arise with teens from their point of view. I cringed listening to the scenarios that were played out and how these parents reacted, because I had similar reactions in handling my teen. I was comforted in that I wasn't the only one thinking along these same lines. These tools presented in speaking with teens and seeing things thru their eyes make me feel better equipped to handle situations going forward. Thank you Adele and Elaine.

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  • Sara Crowder
  • 10-07-2015

Good info kind of cheesy presentation

I thought I hated the format of the book, with the "story" of the meetings and the people...I thought it was really cheesy. However, I must say I felt there was great info in the book, and I am going to listen to it a second time to really get all the concepts that I can then put into action. I do feel the info learned here is valid and will be helpful. In addition I read "if I have to tell you one more time" and it melds nice with this book. Same type of principles, but with more action plan specifics. I think the two together will really benefit my parenting.

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  • Sconi05
  • 21-03-2015

Incredibly helpful!

Love all of the How to Talk books and Siblings Without Rivalry too! My 10 year old twin girls have responded wonderfully to these techniques!

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  • Avido
  • 23-08-2017

Narration made me cringe

There are some useful tidbits in this book but the narration made me cringe. Really cringe! Also there doesn't seem to be any evidence to back up the theory. The story describes a few weeks of parenting seminars and it isn't clear what real issues the parents' faced or whether they were resolved aside from 'improved communication'.

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  • W. Reilly
  • 28-06-2019

Excellent and actionable

There are a lot of good examples and realistic scenarios to learn from. It's not easy to get something this simple right in reality but in the weeks since I finished the book I have found my relationship with my kids much better. Most importantly I'm not always coming across as angry or against them. I am very grateful for this book, simple!

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  • joan
  • 22-07-2018

expository analysis

hard truth and reality of dealing with teens. a reference to reckon with when overwhelmed

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  • Mrs. D. HANSON
  • 25-07-2017

Really helpful for teenagers

I would have liked some easier to find summary points or a pdf with them on but overall really helpful to stay calm and keep the communication going

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 23-01-2020

Excellent

Really helpful, easy to understand book. This book can be helpful by both reading the whole book or just some of the chapters.

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  • Kindle Customer
  • 16-04-2019

Great sensible advice

It was a very easy book to listen too. A bit short but very worthwhile. I'm looking forward to trying the advice with my children.

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  • abeer
  • 03-02-2019

wounderful book about parenting, l enjoy every part of it, must read book, thanks alot

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  • M
  • 18-06-2021

Informative, insightful, helpful and calming

Great tone and helpful illustrative stories from a parent's experience. Clear tips. Highly recommended 10/10

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  • Suzy Smith
  • 13-12-2020

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I listened to this after listening to their other book for young kids. The techniques for listening and talking with teenagers are great and I've already started putting them to use at home, they definitely help. I did find some of the views expressed in the conversations with the parents a little outdated, but to be fair it is 15 years old.

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  • RN
  • 20-11-2020

old fashioned

Gosh, where do I start.... I agree with another listener: the voice made me cringe, a lot! Honestly, condescending and cringeworthy. Two older ladies are reminiscing. Very basic

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