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How to Fix a Broken Heart

Narrated by: Guy Winch
Length: 2 hrs and 46 mins
5 out of 5 stars (36 ratings)
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Publisher's Summary

Imagine if we treated broken hearts with the same respect and concern we have for broken arms? Psychologist Guy Winch urges us to rethink the way we deal with emotional pain, offering warm, wise, and witty advice for the broken-hearted.

Real heartbreak is unmistakable. We think of nothing else. We feel nothing else. We care about nothing else. Yet while we wouldn't expect someone to return to daily activities immediately after suffering a broken limb, heartbroken people are expected to function normally in their lives, despite the emotional pain they feel. Now psychologist Guy Winch imagines how different things would be if we paid more attention to this unique emotion - if only we can understand how heartbreak works, we can begin to fix it.

Through compelling research and new scientific studies, Winch reveals how and why heartbreak impacts our brain and our behavior in dramatic and unexpected ways, regardless of our age. Emotional pain lowers our ability to reason, to think creatively, to problem solve, and to function at our best. In How to Fix a Broken Heart he focuses on two types of emotional pain - romantic heartbreak and the heartbreak that results from the loss of a cherished pet. These experiences are both accompanied by severe grief responses, yet they are not deemed as important as, for example, a formal divorce or the loss of a close relative. As a result, we are often deprived of the recognition, support, and compassion afforded to those whose heartbreak is considered more significant.

Our heart might be broken, but we do not have to break with it. Winch reveals that recovering from heartbreak always starts with a decision, a determination to move on when our mind is fighting to keep us stuck. We can take control of our lives and our minds and put ourselves on the path to healing. Winch offers a toolkit on how to handle and cope with a broken heart and how to, eventually, move on.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying reference material will be available in your My Library section along with the audio.

©2018 Guy Winch (P)2018 Simon & Schuster

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Listened to this and commited to letting go of Ex.

I listened to this in one day. I have been going through my first ever breakup, I am 27 and this was the first meaningful romantic connection I have ever had. I had wanted some guidance in how to heal and let go. This book came right on time. In one day I was ready to commit into letting go of her and what we had.

Guy explains the philosophy behind healing from breakups in a concise way but also allows you to relate to the emotions of his subjects. I have gotten the paper copy now as well. Will definitely use this as my guide to breakups from now on.

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very pragmatic and helpful

I decided to buy the audio book after watching Guy's TED talk and I must say that I'm not at all disappointed!! He brings great depth and understanding to the subject with a clear and relatable style.
The whole book is full of substance and at no point did I feel like it dragged on meaninglessly. it helped me get through my separation far better than I was prior to hearing this.

Thanks very much Guy

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A great healing tool

This was the one thing that kick started me into recovery from my anguish and broken heart. thought it would never heal until listening to this book. there us now hope.

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Good read/listen

Gentle in telling you what you need to hear - helps to put things into perspective.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 03-04-2018

I wish I had learned this when I was growing up

My first relationship happened by the age of 30, being gay and with a terrible self esteem. When it ended at the age of 32 I was devastated. I had just lost my companion which I shared so many activities from backpacking, gaming, going out, traveling and exercising with. With it I was thrown back into the dating scene with my self criticism and had no idea of how to move on. How to fill the gaps where we shared so much and where he gave me support. After listening to the audio book I now have the tools to move on. It will not be easy, but now I know what I must do. Not only search new friends and activities but also and maybe the most important, remove my low self esteem. Thank you for writing the book and sharing your thoughts on the topic!

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  • Cameron Vakilian
  • 14-02-2018

Well written and thought provoking!

I was really captivated by this book. It not only validated feelings I had about heartbreak, but offered logical and compelling strategies for healing. The concept of disenfranchised grief is well explained by the author. It’s something I never associated as to why short term romantic heartbreaks were just as painful as the loss of a loved one. I highly recommend this book to anyone looking for answers or to be healthy after a heartbreak.

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  • David Calderilla
  • 13-02-2019

breakups suck. dr winch helped.

such a great book. truly helped me find the tools to mend my heart. thanks.

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  • Fargo
  • 29-01-2019

new perspective

focused on broken hearts from relationships and loss of a pet. But the information can be translated to many areas easily. It's a fresh perspective that's not too clinical and not too touchy feely.

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  • D.Tulla
  • 10-03-2019

You Can Fix it!

It should be mandatory reading starting in HS to prepare you for real life experiences that everyone will experience sometime in their life from the loss of pet or your first love or worse.
Easy to listen to narrated by the the author. I only wish I had heard this before I lost the love of my life.
Too hear and see him find him on this topic and more find him on TED TALK where his humor in presenting a short version on this topic gives you hope that you van get through this pain your in.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 01-03-2019

very honest, helpful & enlightening!

bonus is author/narrator has a wonderful accent that makes listening to him & his content even more enjoyable

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  • m_perring@yahoo.co.uk
  • 19-01-2019

Definitely worth it

I first heard Dr Winch on Ted Talk and his approach to heartbreak has made a big difference in my healing process. I highly recommend to everyone.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 02-01-2019

Very realistic and helpful

This book was very refreshing and realistic in breaking down the many emotions a persons goes through. I was relieved that I wasnt crazy for feeling what i now understand to be normal behavior and im more informed how to treat my feelings on a road to recovery and healing...Thanks Guy :)

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  • Valerie Lewis
  • 30-12-2018

awesome!

I finished this in one night.... I've never done that with an audiobook. I highly recommend it.

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  • rainytechs
  • 17-12-2018

loved it!

Such an eye opener, will listen over and over until the suggestions in this book become healthy habits.

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  • ayo
  • 22-03-2019

I enjoyed it.

Sometimes it was a bit pedestrian specifically the last chapter but I liked it overall. A nice wake up call to be more compassionate.

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  • Zizi
  • 05-02-2019

Not helpful at all

Didn’t really help with the broken heart! The stories are so long which is almost all the book.

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  • FrenchTeacher
  • 31-10-2018

Soothing and informative

The stories really brought the science to life. The writer did a Ted talk which is how I heard about book, and so he's pretty good at performing, I thought it was well read. Helpful too.

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  • Josh
  • 10-10-2018

excellent book, one everyone should read

loved it, read in a compassionate and understanding way with excellent advice and guidance for those going through heartbreak. As well as with examples from patients stories he treated to demonstrate steps required to overcome emotional distress.

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  • Iordanous Souzan
  • 04-08-2018

A really good listen. Made me feel quickly at ease

Listened to the whole thing in one go!! Guy was so easy to listen to and he offered a great insight using some good subjects and relevant examples.

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  • Angus
  • 15-06-2018

Helped me a lot.

Watched the author give a TED talk which I found useful but this goes into much more detail

The author provides thoughtful, insightful, sympathetic but importantly instructive guidance to those trying to resolve difficult emotional situations.

I wish I hadn’t had to find this book but it has been a help.

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  • secret
  • 13-06-2018

Extremely knowledgable and guiding

I found this book after watching the TED talk. Beautifully narrated by the author with great case studies referenced.

I no longer feel alone in my emotional pain and have a better understanding of how to deal with heartbreak.

If you are struggling with heart break, download this now, it will help you from the minute you start listening.

Gutted the authors other book about emotional pain isn’t available through audible UK and his practice is in the states, would love a therapy session!

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  • Mystery Miss
  • 24-05-2018

Good read

I enjoyed the book and found it useful..
Heartache is real and should be recognised, including the physical pain caused.

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  • Stephen E
  • 12-04-2018

Insightful, encouraging & very helpful book

Well-written well-narrated. The author seems like an expert in his field, has a clear way of expressing ideas & a great skill in telling personal stories.

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  • Spyri Dela
  • 21-02-2018

A scientific approach to a very emotional subject

Would you consider the audio edition of How to Fix a Broken Heart to be better than the print version?

I am not one for self help books but this one I felt was the right balance of informative, scientific and helpful. The author makes some very interesting points throughout and he brings a fresh perspective to a very 'cliche' and taboo subject. I also liked the fact that he used examples of his patients throughout because it made the whole thing a bit more real.

I also loved the fact that it was short and sweet.

If you have a broken hart or you know someone that has a broken heart, give this a go.

What does Guy Winch bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you had only read the book?

I always like it when the author is the narrator as well and this is no exception. He does an amazing job highlighting the book's main premise, of being consultative without being patronising.